Since you have chosen a good day, it is for the future happiness of the two of you, and the day is also important, but if you don't accept it, you will be unhappy and the good day will be washed away. It's you two who will suffer in the future, and his parents and they will do it for your own good.
Don't worry about the house. In our village, if someone gets married, many relatives will come. If you can't go back that day, sleep at someone else's house in the village. Sometimes we have married relatives and friends who we don't know, even if the villagers help each other. In addition, marriage can make money, and some people earn a few W's when they get married.
If you want to be happy, let the old people be happy and let them do the work of the younger generation. Don't be unhappy, prepare to invite all their friends to play.
Wish LZ happiness.