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Wedding, for different women, they have different requirements for the wedding. Whether you choose publicity or simplicity, it is everyone's will.
In fact, there is really no specific standard. As long as both people can accept it, that's all.
Xiaohui is a newly married woman. She said: the wedding is better to be simple.
Xiaohui thinks the wedding scene is too extravagant, but it will actually cost a lot of money. For newlyweds, there are still many places to spend money in the future. Xiaohui is an ordinary working class, and her husband has limited income. They are just an ordinary family.
Xiaohui doesn't think it is necessary to make the wedding so big. Her wedding was simple, but romantic. The cost is not much, she can accept it.
Xiaohui's philosophy is: save what you can, and there is no need to waste money on these "empty heads and brain holes" things. After marriage, if you want to live a good life, money is essential. So, what's wrong with saving it for later use?
Actually, this idea is not bad. Others will choose not to have a wedding, and the young couple will hold their own "exclusive wedding" according to their own wishes.
In fact, it is good for two people to discuss the wedding.
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Xiaohui and her husband have been married for more than three months. Although they didn't save much money from the wedding, she said that the money could also make them struggle less.
Yes, marriage is a long life. There are still many problems to be solved after this. What should I do about the wedding? Actually, it depends on your own actual situation.
For ordinary people, perhaps many people will choose Xiaohui. Just a simple wedding, let relatives, friends and parents bless together, just a simple meal.
Yes, the wedding is actually just a ceremony, so there is no need to be so serious.
Some people say, "A man doesn't love a woman unless she has a decent wedding." In fact, this view is not correct. True love is thinking for a long time. If a woman really loves a man, she won't care.
In fact, a happy marriage has nothing to do with the ostentation and extravagance of the wedding. The happiness of marriage depends on the efforts of two people. Therefore, the most important thing after two people get married is to work together.
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Of course, weddings are also needed. This is a ceremony, and we need to have such a sense of ceremony. But don't let such a sense of ceremony be full of "copper smell".
According to your own actual situation, if it can be simple, it is actually beneficial.
Life is realistic, so is marriage. In terms of money, we must consider the long term. In love, it is best not to link anything with money. Whether the wedding is simple or not is not directly related to the happiness of marriage.
Wedding, it's better to be simple. In fact, now more and more people agree with this practice. Weddings are becoming more and more diverse.
No matter what kind of wedding, it is important that both people can accept it. The most important thing is to live together after marriage. That's all that matters. For newlyweds, they may be a little uncomfortable with their new roles. But you should manage your marriage with your heart.
Understand: marriage is your own, and only you know whether it is good or not. For some so-called rituals, the so-called face. Can save, actually can save. The days belong to you, so there is no need to be so "empty". It is best to seek truth from facts.
Today's topic: As a woman, can you accept a simple wedding? Welcome to discuss!
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