The first thing to pay attention to when choosing the best man and bridesmaid is: don't let the best man and bridesmaid steal your thunder. It doesn't matter if the best man and the bridesmaid are handsome, but don't let their handsomeness overshadow yours. Because you are the protagonists today. The best man is handsome and taller than the groom, so obviously he compared the groom to boring, so just choose someone who is not as good as himself in all aspects. Of course, it is not too difficult to find those, as long as he is not handsome. It is easier to choose a bridesmaid than a groomsman, because the bride has carefully made up that day. As long as the bridesmaids don't wear wedding dresses or dress too brightly, it is generally impossible to cover the bride. Secondly, it is as easy as possible to choose the best man and bridesmaid, because at the wedding banquet, many people will hold their breath and toss the best man and bridesmaid. If you care too much about these people, you are likely to be very unhappy. Besides, the best man and bridesmaid should drink a little, otherwise the moves on the wine table can't stand it.

Best man bridesmaid condition

Q: Am I fit to be the best man and maid of honor?

A: The best man and bridesmaid should be friends and relatives familiar with the couple, preferably younger and unmarried than the couple, and the younger brother and sister can also be the best man and bridesmaid. As for the conditions of being the best man and bridesmaid, the most important thing is to be diligent, not afraid of hard work, and be good at creating an atmosphere, which can make the wedding more lively, make the guests more enthusiastic and control the atmosphere at the scene. As the bride and groom, of course, they want to be the focus of the audience on the wedding night, so they will avoid choosing too beautiful female/male friends as bridesmaids to avoid being overshadowed.

Q: What is the role of the best man and bridesmaid?

A: As a couple's best man and bridesmaid, the most important job is to keep personal belongings for the couple on the wedding day and assist in the process and arrangement on the wedding day. In addition to brothers and sisters, the best man and bridesmaid also need to take care of the new couple's personal needs, for example, the best man needs to give up drinking and escort the groom; The bridesmaid will arrange the wedding dress for the bride, so it is best to invite the responsible groomsman and bridesmaid to make the wedding go smoothly.

Q: Is there a limit to the number of brothers and sisters?

A: There should be no limit, but neither too much nor too little. The most extreme party had better have 5- 12 men and women, and the number of brothers and sisters should be symmetrical.

Memo of bridesmaids and groomsmen

1. Sometimes bridesmaids will take the responsibility of keeping red envelopes. Please prepare an exquisite but bulky handbag in advance, and remember to give it to the financial supervisor or parents designated by the couple before the ceremony, and ask them to keep it properly.

2. Remind the couple not to forget the ring, or keep the ring for the couple, and make sure to give it to the designated person on the stage before the ceremony.

3, holding a ring pillow, the bridesmaid undertakes this work, must remember to pay attention to their position, so as not to become a "third party" in the photo, and then help the bride pick up the flowers and take off her gloves. If flower girl is holding a ring pillow, please ask the bridesmaid to take good care of him or her.

4. The groomsman and bridesmaid convey the new couple's voice on the wedding day. Don't hesitate to find relevant staff in time to help newcomers convey their wishes and let professionals provide services for newcomers. Never make a decision without authorization.

Of course, if you plan to hire a professional wedding planner, it doesn't matter whether the best man and bridesmaid have experience. In addition to arranging all the trivial matters in the wedding, wedding planning will also guide and remind the best man and bridesmaid about their work, position and etiquette in the ceremony, and even arrange for the new secretary to perform part of the bridesmaid's work.