What problems should we pay attention to when getting married in rural areas?
1. Gift: According to the general custom, a small gift should be prepared for the wedding reception, wrapped in red paper or specially printed double happiness characters, and appropriate gift money should be put in it. The amount of the gift depends on the financial situation of the guests and the distance from the bride and groom, but it is best to take an even number, including six? Lu? Eight pairs? Send? , what is it? Grow old together? The meaning of.
2. Seating: Attend the wedding according to the guide of the host or the host. If there is no guidance, you can sit with familiar relatives and friends, but be careful not to take the initiative? Newcomer list? Or? Parents' table. It is polite to take food and eat while eating.
3. Toast: When the bride and groom make a toast at each table, everyone will stand up and raise their glasses, gently clink them with the couple, and then say? Congratulations? . Don't get the bride and groom drunk, don't ramble, and control the time for the newlyweds to propose a toast at each table within 3 minutes, so that they can finish the banquet smoothly and enter the bridal chamber in advance. At the same time, don't make a hullabaloo about at the banquet, and drink moderately to avoid being rude after being drunk.
4. Scatter confetti: At the wedding, people smile and scatter confetti to the sky, to the bride and groom, and to the guests who come to congratulate. This custom originated in Italy. In the Middle Ages, anyone who attended an Italian wedding would sprinkle a handful of colorful candy on the couple and wish them a sweet life. /kloc-in the 0 th and 9 th centuries, people changed to sprinkle colored confetti instead of candy.
5. Eat dumplings: Before getting married, the bride should eat dumplings with her parents, brothers and girlfriends to show goodbye. Mother feeds her daughter dumplings, and the bride cries.
6. lovable: when the groom meets the woman's home, he should hold a bouquet in the room for the bride to get married. At this time, the bride's girlfriend should deliberately stop the groom, but the conditions require the groom's consent, usually with a red envelope gift.
7. Farewell: The bride has to bid farewell to her parents, and the groom can only bow and salute.
8. Going out: The bride should be escorted to the limousine by a female elder with a bamboo plaque or a black umbrella, because the bride can't see the sunshine overhead, and the other party hopes to live a happy life like this female elder. (Note: Prepare a bamboo plaque and paste a happy word on it)
9. Gift car: Bamboo plaque can be placed on the back cover of the gift car.
10, fan worship: Before the bride got on the limousine, an auspicious boy held a fan (put it on a tea tray) for the bride, and the bride returned a red envelope to express her gratitude. (Note: Prepare a fan and bring two small red envelopes)
1 1, never say goodbye: when everyone leaves the woman's house, never say goodbye to her family.
12, throwing fans: After the car starts, the bride should throw the fans out of the window, which means that she will not bring bad temper to her husband's house. The little boy will pick up a fan and give it to her family. They will give her a red envelope to thank her.
13, firecrackers: the limousine leaves the woman's house to set off firecrackers.
14. Touch oranges: Go to the man's house by limousine, and a child will greet the couple with two oranges. The bride should gently touch the orange and then thank the red envelope.
15. Hold the bride: When the bride gets off the bus, a lucky elder of the man will hold a bamboo plaque on her head and help her into the hall.
16, avoid stepping on the threshold: cross the threshold.
17. Go through the brazier and step on the tile: After the bride enters the hall, she must go through the brazier and step on the tile.
18, into the bridal chamber: the couple took the groom's trousers in advance and sat on the bench together, saying that they were wholeheartedly interested in having a boy in the future. No man is allowed into the bridal chamber. (Choose the time to enter the bridal chamber)
19, avoid taking a new bed: on the wedding day, no one can take a new bed, and the bride can't lie down, so as not to be sick in bed all the year round. In addition, after going to bed, you should find an underage boy to sleep in bed with the groom on the eve of your wedding.