2. A pair of sugar cans, a pair of tea trays and 4-8 sets of tea cups (with cover and chassis).
3, avoid getting married in the ghost month. It is the seventh month of the lunar calendar. (Also avoid being born in July).
4. The peculiar marriage customs in southern Fujian. Although free love is now advocated and young men and women are more open, most people still choose the road of "blind date", at which time the matchmaker plays a decisive role. Blind date is generally divided into two stages: one is to ask the matchmaker to "snoop around" to see who has a woman (man) of marriageable age. Once the "target" appears, the trustee will take a peek first. This step is called "first glance", which means "take a look". Some also choose the place of "first meeting" in the matchmaker's home. Second, if "first meeting" feels good, please ask the matchmaker to arrange a formal meeting between men and women, usually at the woman's house, when both men and women will "send a big team to participate". Of course, some people skip the stage of "first sight" and go straight to the theme of "blind date"!
After the bed is fixed, until the eve of the wedding night, the prospective groom should avoid sleeping alone in the new bed, and can find a big zodiac to sleep with underage boys, such as Long Xiao.
6, bride price money-the woman wants to return the gift to pee-the woman accepts it all.
7. The woman should invite the gift-giving guests to eat eggs (two shelled eggs for each person to cook sweet soup); .
8. The day after the wedding, the bride will go back to her family for the first time. Her parents will arrange for her son-in-law. At that time, there will be: the groom and the best man, the bride and an unmarried girl (unmarried boys in some places) and her relatives. The man should also bring enough cigarettes and money for the day, because the man should pay for the cigarettes and money for the guests that day. After the banquet, the groom and the best man go home first, and the bride waits until the little girl picking sugar cane (taking "sugar cane" as sweet height) returns to her husband's house, which means "getting started, having a baby" (getting started can have a boy when it is dark). When the bride goes back to her husband's house, the groom's house still has to be avoided (can't be seen)!
9, determine the stage-talk about employment money and shirt pants money, red envelopes!
10. On the third day after the wedding, the man will be ready to invite his in-laws. Dialect is called "Taiwan Province in-laws". The number of people attending this day is relatively small, namely: the man's parents and their immediate family members, the woman's father, and two or three colleagues accompanying the woman's father. The woman's mother can't attend this day!