Although love is free and marriage is free, many young people feel that they have grown up and their wings are hard, and that marriage is their own decision. In reality, parents often decide their children's marriage. But sometimes what children like, parents don't like; What parents appreciate and what children don't like leads some children to disagree with their parents on major marriage issues.
I think my parents are experienced people, and they have rich life experience, so I think we have to listen to our parents on marriage issues.
It is often said that an ugly daughter-in-law will always meet her in-laws, so for a man, if he wants to marry his girlfriend home, he must go through his girlfriend's parents before there will be a so-called first visit.
A while ago, I heard my sister-in-law say that her daughter was in love, and I was extremely happy. I thought my daughter was introverted and did not like to talk. My husband and I have been worried about her marriage. Now that her daughter is in love, can I be unhappy?
I greeted my daughter's date with pleasure. Unexpectedly, after they left, a great event happened at home, which made me still don't know how to deal with it.
My daughter has always been very clever and sensible, especially in learning, and she has never worried. During my daughter's college years, she won a scholarship almost every year. All relatives praised my daughter for her great achievements in the future.
I am a traditional person. To be honest, I don't expect my daughter to have much skill. I just hope that her daughter can find a good job, a good husband's family and a stable life in the future.
Later, my daughter stayed in Wuhan to work after graduation. Now, as a department head, I can say that I have made small achievements in my career, but seeing my daughter's indifference to marriage, I began to worry.
Nowadays, women have the ability to marry after all. She can't be single forever. My husband and I are anxious to think that our daughter is almost 30 years old and doesn't even have a date.
When I asked people everywhere to arrange blind dates for my daughter, I didn't know that my daughter suddenly went home with her date half a month ago. My daughter wants to surprise us.
It turned out that my daughter had a date as early as six months ago, but she kept it from us. My daughter wants to wait until their relationship is stable before taking it home, that's all.
Knowing that my daughter was taking her partner home, I quickly went to the market to buy it. I was busy at home all morning and cooked a sumptuous meal.
When my daughter got home, I carefully observed her date and found the boy honest. Knowing that the boy is from the countryside, his family conditions are very poor. However, we don't mind. We also came out of the countryside, and after some efforts, we gained a firm foothold in the city.
To tell the truth, my husband and I are quite satisfied with our son-in-law. Judging from his behavior and words, I feel that he is a very reliable boy.
After lunch, I wrapped a 2000 red envelope for my daughter to date. Because we have a local custom: the son-in-law comes to the door 1 time, and if he meets someone, he will give a red envelope in recognition.
Feeling nervous about her daughter's date, she took her husband out for a walk and let her date with her at home.
That afternoon, my daughter received a phone call saying that the company was working overtime temporarily and she was going back to Wuhan. Later, her daughter and her partner hurried to say goodbye to us.
Unexpectedly, an important thing happened in the evening. When I was cleaning, I found that the watch I usually put on the coffee table in the living room was gone. This watch was sold to my husband by my sister-in-law for ten thousand yuan six months ago.
My husband told me that he hadn't touched that watch recently.
I'm sure my daughter or her date took this watch, but who took it? I don't care if my daughter gives her a watch; If her partner steals the watch, it will be serious. If so, it shows that this boy has ulterior motives. How dare I entrust my daughter to such a boy?
I don't know how to tell my daughter about it now. Tell me, but I'm afraid my daughter is wrong.
Parents are most worried about their children's marriage. In this article, the mother is concerned about her daughter's lifelong happiness, and a 10 thousand yuan watch is missing, which makes her anxious. She is not only worried that her watch will be stolen by her daughter's object, but also worried that if there is a misunderstanding, it will ruin her daughter's happiness. Finally, the relationship between mother and daughter will be tense.
As the saying goes, "You can't have your cake and eat it." Nothing in life can satisfy both sides. I think the mother should boldly tell her daughter who has the watch. Because this matter is related to the happiness of her daughter's life, if her daughter takes it, she must cut the gordian knot quickly and let her break up in order to stop the loss in time.