In the face of marriage problems, they think more about whether the other person is suitable for them, while women think most about whether he loves you or not and whether you love him or not.

Therefore, when deciding to get married, men often consider whether women are suitable for them, while women often consider whether men love themselves or not. Therefore, women are often more vulnerable in marriage.

When a woman falls in love, she becomes blind and irrational. In a relationship, a woman can give everything for love. Men, on the other hand, find it difficult to do this because they hesitate to weigh the pros and cons.

Therefore, women must be cautious and rational when choosing a marriage partner. You can't make a decision on impulse.

So many times, parents will evaluate their daughter's marriage partner. After all, when parents are old, they may be able to tell what kind of people they are at a glance. In fact, parents have a great say in choosing their daughters for marriage.

If your parents don't hate the poor and love the rich, but stop you from falling in love with someone on the grounds of character, then don't try your best to love him just to prove them wrong. You will find that you have suffered more than you think. When you harvest a little, the years have no regrets. You just proved that that man is much worse than they saw.

The reality is so cruel. What you think of love is probably just a game in men's eyes. Your views on marriage and responsibility will often be forgotten by them. So I suggest that female friends sometimes look at men and listen to their parents' advice. After all, they won't hurt you.

If a woman can't marry a man, then Phoenix Man is second to none. The history of many women's blood and tears tells us that it is correct to marry Phoenix Man or not!

Nowadays, the word Phoenix Man has become a derogatory term. Especially those men who want to drain the woman's property and change the fate of themselves and their families. Phoenix man is good at reading minds and will make people happy. They often cheat girls first and then show their true colors after marriage.

Many girls are coaxed by Phoenix Man into thinking that they have met love, so they want to marry Phoenix Man regardless of the opposition of people around them. This also caused the tragedy of her later marriage.

Qin Xiao is a woman cheated by Phoenix Man. Now that she has been married for two years, she has lost confidence in her married life. For various reasons, she is still hesitating about whether this marriage should continue.

When Qin Xiao mentioned this marriage, his words were full of regret. She found a job as soon as she graduated from college. It was in this company that she met her husband Wang Hai.

At that time, Wang Hai had been working for two years. He is three years older than Qin Xiao, and is regarded as the predecessor of Qin Xiao.

Qin Xiao, a rookie, has a lot of things he doesn't understand in his work. Wang Hai takes good care of her and often teaches her. Qin Xiao has grown rapidly under his care, so he is very grateful to him.

Wang Hai's ability is very good, and he is often appreciated by his boss. Qin Xiao worships him, too. A man who is good at taking care of himself, has a good ability and is not ugly, Qin Xiao soon fell in love with him.

Later, I heard from other colleagues that Wang Hai's family was poor, his hometown was rural, and he had no house or car. Tell Qin Xiao to think about it.

At that time, Qin Xiao had fallen in love with Wang Hai deeply, and the material conditions mentioned by her colleagues were nothing to her. She thinks that as long as two people work together, they will definitely change their lives.

As the saying goes, women chase men's interlayer yarn. In the face of sogeum's pursuit, it didn't take long for Wang Hai to agree, and the two formally got together.

Qin Xiao and Wang Hai have been in love for about a year. At that time, they had reached marriageable age, so Wang Hai proposed to Qin Xiao. Qin Xiao was very moved and agreed to him.

But this marriage, as expected, was opposed by Qin Xiao's parents. The reason can also be guessed: the door is not right, and I am afraid that Qin Xiao will suffer after marriage.

Qin Xiao is married to Wang Hai, and she almost had a quarrel with her parents. In the end, my parents had no choice but to agree to their marriage.

The marriage is settled, but they have no house or car. Most of the money earned by Wang Hai in recent years has been given to his parents. He also has a younger brother who is studying and needs his support.

In desperation, the two had to rent a house. In this way, two people started their married life.

It didn't take long for the happy days after marriage, and the problems faced by the two people had already appeared. The money earned by two people, excluding rent and monthly expenses, is simply not enough. Wang Hai earns 6000 yuan a month, while Qin Xiao earns more than 4000 yuan a month. But because most of the money earned by Wang Hai went to his parents and younger brother, the rest of the money was used to pay for his life.

Because of this, Qin Xiao told Wang Hai many times, but Wang Hai didn't listen at all. He also said that he is very filial and can't just think about pleasure and forget his parents and family.

Qin Xiao is very angry with him, but life goes on. There is no way. They began to borrow money from credit cards to live.

Anyone who can't make ends meet for too long will collapse and the husband and wife will begin to have differences. Wang Hai thinks Qin Xiao is too materialistic and always wants to spend his own money. Qin Xiao thinks that Wang Hai only considers his family and never considers his feelings.

Finally, Wang Hai actually came up with a way, that is, with Xiaoqin AA. In the future, after the money of the two people is removed from the expenses needed for life, no one can control the money of others.

Xiaoqin is not angry with life, just sharing! But Wang Hai has made up his mind and made a list.

In this way, this absurd marriage life began, and Wang Hai listed every expense clearly. This makes Xiaoqin very uncomfortable.

After more than a year of this kind of life, Qin Xiao is tired of this marriage, and the feelings between her and Wang Hai have faded a lot. She began to regret marrying him.

It was Wang Hai's younger brother who was getting married until that happened. He borrowed money everywhere and said that he would give his brother a down payment. Xiaoqin quarreled with him with anger.

Unexpectedly, Wang Hai said, "Since we are husband and wife, you should also pay half of the money. Give me all the money you have. "

Qin Xiao was almost mad. She quarreled with Wang Hai again, leaving a sentence: If you still give money to your parents and family every month, I will divorce you!

Qin Xiao packed her bags and went home, but Wang Hai didn't look for her during this time. She is considering whether she should divorce Wang Hai.

In fact, in my opinion, today's Qin Xiao doesn't have to hesitate at all, just divorce Wang Hai. In this marriage, Wang Hai's love for Qin Xiao is completely invisible, but Qin Xiao is tolerant of Wang Hai everywhere. And because of material reasons, the couple's feelings have almost been exhausted.

This is what happens when you marry the Phoenix man. You need to bear the expenses of his family. In his eyes, this is a matter of course.

Do as you would be done by. This sentence should actually be given to all the Phoenix men in the world.