Marriage is of course important. Marriage is like a cup of tea. The right person smells delicious every day. If you choose the wrong one, the longer it takes, the more you will find it is like a stagnant pool with no fun; This kind of love between "relatives" can't be said, but it has been proved by its own practical actions; This other half who is not related to you by blood, some people can have sweet feelings and often have each other psychologically for more than ten years; Some people just got married and live in a chicken feather. The two places are separated and have never met. I think I should have some say in this view; My daughter-in-law was in Datong rural area of Shanxi in 9 1 year, and I was in Shangluo, Shaanxi in 90 years. The distance between the north and the south came together because of fate; Our combination is fate and destiny. We often quarrel when we are in love, but both sides have been trying to forget each other psychologically. This is especially true after marriage. With children and more responsibilities, couples become more mature and stable. At the same time, because both of them are from rural areas, their family economic conditions are basically the same. When dealing with housework, we are basically considerate of each other. In recent years, the epidemic has been raging, and the people have a hard time. My wife and I basically go out early and come back late every day, but we both feel that we are dependent on each other for life. This may be what people often say: work hard and be happy.

The other hero is the daughter-in-law's cousin, who is very good at dressing herself since she was a child and has a high personal eye. Finally, by chance, she met a handsome guy with a superior family. Both parents are civil servants of local government departments, and the living conditions of small families are superior. At the beginning, during their passionate love, the boy's parents themselves did not agree to this marriage. From their love to marriage, the man's parents have never seen his cousin and separated in various ways. Not to mention our family discussed their marriage, but the parents couldn't beat their son and finally compromised. They still didn't show up when they got married, but as time went on, the boy's family gradually accepted all this and knew that they had a child. The man's parents will also help with the children. My cousin has no education and graduated from junior high school, but she is good at dressing up, engaging in beauty cosmetics and being sociable. Her income is moderate in the local area. Relatives all think that her cousin can earn money and marry well, and she is both envious and jealous. When she mentioned her cousin, she was excellent and envious. On their wedding day, her relatives and her cousin's friends were basically present on time, and the money was slightly higher than that of other peers. Because the daughter-in-law is married far away, and because of the epidemic in recent years, most of them occasionally chat with relatives in their hometown by phone or video. The other day, my cousin's parents and her daughter-in-law talked about her marriage. They were very worried about their marriage. The man's stable job belongs to temporary workers in government departments, and his salary is low, so it is difficult to maintain family expenses. Cousin couldn't accept it, so she went out to work hard in the south alone. They haven't seen each other for more than half a year, and there is almost no telephone, so their parents can't help feeling a little sad.

Humans all hope to find a life without struggle, and hope that their other half can make them more relaxed and happy, whether in business or in life, but this desire and actual marriage may make us happier. If my cousin has just found a rural family with similar conditions, is self-motivated and willing to work hard to earn money, it may be another situation now, but life is not a rehearsal, but a performance every day.