I will give you a clear explanation today.
Today, I will make it clear to you about the choice of bridesmaids.
Can't you be a bridesmaid more than three times?
1. There has always been a saying that you can't get married when you are a bridesmaid for more than three times. This statement mainly comes from the traditional saying in China that having a bridesmaid is equivalent to giving one's luck (marriage) to others, so every time the fate of a bridesmaid is less, it will have a certain impact on one's marriage.
This is a traditional saying, but if your bridesmaid candidate is more concerned about this saying, it is better not to force it.
2. Another reality is that bridesmaids may witness the differences and disputes between the couple or two families because of the wedding. If they are bridesmaids more often, they will be afraid of getting married.
Today, I will make it clear to you about the choice of bridesmaids.
Do bridesmaids have to be unmarried?
1. Western proverb: The concept of having bridesmaids, boys, waiters and ushers in a wedding stems from the belief that the evil E-spirit jealous of the couple's happiness will ruin the couple's wedding and hurt them on the wedding day. However, if there are many people wearing similar clothes at the wedding, you can confuse You Ling to protect the couple from completing the wedding ceremony.
Moreover, because ancient westerners thought that fragrant flowers and spices could eliminate evil E's fooling around, bad luck and j 1 disease, bridesmaids also needed to hold bouquets in addition to the flowers held by the bride at the wedding.
In addition, it is said that in medieval Rome, it was usually wealthy families who could hold large-scale weddings. In order to prevent the bad guys from taking advantage of the new couple, these families will invite a group of sandmen to dress up as the bride and groom to confuse the audience and give the gangsters a chance to do it.
Today, I will make it clear to you about the choice of bridesmaids.
Do bridesmaids have to be unmarried?
1. In the old Beijing, bridesmaids could be called "Xi Niang" and "Mrs. Qin Ying". The selection conditions are married women, spouses, children and in-laws, thinking that choosing such "bridesmaids" will bring happiness to married people.
Xi Niang's duty is to accompany and take care of the bride, dress the groom's mother the day before the wedding, accompany the bride on the wedding day, and lead the bride and groom into the bridal chamber after the wedding ceremony. In the old society, ordinary people wanted two "Xi Niangs", with smart mind, handsome appearance and good eloquence as the selection criteria to mediate the atmosphere in the wedding.
Today, I will make it clear to you about the choice of bridesmaids.
The role of bridesmaids in modern weddings
1. Now the bridesmaids and groomsmen have more functions to help the bride and groom go through the wedding process smoothly and help the wedding come to a successful conclusion.
Because of this, brides now prefer to find their own close friends to be their bridesmaids, because bridesmaids' understanding of the bride's preferences, personality and temper can help the bride handle many things perfectly. Close friends are relatively familiar with the groom and it is easier to communicate when transmitting information.
More importantly, the bride invites her friends to be bridesmaids. More importantly, she wants to share her joy and hope that her best friend can witness the most important day of her life. On this day, bridesmaids will put on beautiful little skirts, take beautiful photos with the bride, laugh and play tricks on the best man and groom, and happily marry good sisters!
Today, I will make it clear to you about the choice of bridesmaids.
What are the bridesmaids mainly responsible for on the wedding day?
1. Take care of the bride's valuables, such as diamond ring (of course, Xianbei still recommends using fake rings at the wedding), red envelopes, mobile phones and so on.
2. Keep communication with the groom team and the wedding team, and understand the wedding team's process and ceremony process.
3. Assist the bride to handle some inconvenient things, such as changing dresses, going to the toilet, changing shoes, etc. Pay attention to the bride's makeup and remind the makeup artist to make up her makeup in time.
4. Active wedding atmosphere.
5. Relieve the bride's emotions. The complicated affairs on the wedding day are likely to affect the bride's mood. Bridesmaids should pay attention to enlightenment at this time.