Generally, the wedding is celebrated with floats, and the groom's best man, Sister Dajin, the photographer and a group of male brothers (cheap labor) flock to the bride's house to get married. In the wedding ceremony, sisters will not easily open the door for the groom and take the bride away to show her gold. Generally speaking, sisters will ask the groom's brother to meet some conditions of sisters, which is very difficult for the groom (playing with the groom's new life under the guidance of the spirit of "eight honors and eight disgraces", I am proud to be close to my wife and ashamed to meet other women, except for the elderly woman who wears stones and is called "engagement"). One of the most important and final conditions is "opening the door for profit" (opening the door to receive red envelopes). Sisters will bargain with numbers through a door. After taking out "opening the door for profit" from the groom's pocket, the sisters at the bride's door will open the door to let the groom and brothers come in and welcome the bride out. "Opening the door is beneficial" means opening the door is beneficial to Geely, hoping for good health, harmony and all the best. It can also be said that it is a way to express greetings and blessings with coins. Because of the lively atmosphere of the bride's wedding day, the sisters all want red envelopes. Note: 1 The groom brings a bouquet to marry the bride (the bride is not allowed to make her own bouquet). 2 Looking for red shoes: The groom will look for red shoes for the bride in the room where the bride is picked up, and then he can take the bride away after wearing them.
Fine tea
Before going out, the bride and groom offered tea to their parents to show that they changed their minds. The bride and groom call their parents mom and dad to express their gratitude for the bride's growth. The bride and groom offer tea to their relatives to show that the bride is married, and their parents and relatives come back with gold, silver, jewels and congratulations. Gold and silver jewelry is an important part of wedding dress. Generally, the tea ceremony is presided over by Sister Dajin, who sings a blessing:' The bride and groom offer tea, and their life will be brilliant ... Xu Cishu in the Ming Dynasty said in the "Tea Flow Test": "Tea does not move its roots, plants and plants have children." Take the meaning of "not moving". The ancients believed that tea trees could only germinate from seeds into plants, but could not be transplanted. Therefore, "tea" is regarded as a symbol of "eternal nature" through the ages. Because "tea is the cleanest", it can be said that love is "pure and flawless"; "Tea does not change roots" can show that love is "faithful"; There are many seeds in tea trees, which can symbolize the "sustainable prosperity" of future generations; Tea trees are evergreen all the year round, and tea merchants' employment means "faithfulness" and "evergreen" of love, and they wish new people "respect each other as guests" and "grow old together".
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The wedding car parade has become a major feature of Zhuhai. One is to show that the bride and groom are being married by the Ming media, and the other is to show good luck. The wedding car parade usually passes through Lovers Road, which is the longest road in China at present, with a length of 28 kilometers. Auspicious numbers in Guangdong are easy to happen, which shows that it is easier to develop and prosper after getting married. The lovers' road is surrounded by mountains and seas, and the scenery is beautiful and warm. In the middle of Lovers Road are fishermen in Zhuhai, and its beauty lies in this. The fisherman in Zhuhai is the daughter of the Dragon King of the South China Sea. She met the honest fisherman Haipeng, and they fell in love. Eight housewives in the Dragon Palace put bracelets on her to prevent her from remembering the past and fleeing. As long as she takes off one thing, she will die. However, in order to clear her mind, she suddenly pulled down a bracelet and immediately fell asleep in her lover's arms. It reflects the imagination and hope of marriage and free love in ancient Zhuhai. The fisherman's hand held a glittering pearl high, as if to show light and offer treasures.
Go out and start acting.
Sister Dajin's performance time is to go out and get started. The bride needs the help of the bridesmaid or big sister with a red umbrella, which means spreading the branches and leaves. Other sisters should also sprinkle rice, red mung beans and gold scraps while walking, commonly known as "feeding the golden rooster", which is said to prevent the golden rooster from pecking at the bride. Before boarding the float, the bride should bow to her relatives and friends to show her gratitude.
After arriving at the man's house, the bride stepped into the man's house with the help of Daikin. A brazier (copper basin or iron basin) burning charcoal will be placed outside the gate in advance, and the bride needs to cross it. This is called "crossing the brazier", which means prosperity and evil spirits. Next, there is a ceremony to pay homage to the church, which is divided into three steps. The first step is to worship heaven and earth, the second step is to worship ancestors, and the third step is to worship Wengjiagu.
It must be noted that all the people who accompany the bride to the man's house, except Sister Daikin, must be unmarried women, and the bride's brother must not accompany the bride to the door. If the bride marries before her brother, she must hang his trousers at the door and let the bride wear them under her crotch. If she marries before her sister, she should send a skirt to her unmarried sister. Unmarried brothers and sisters should not witness newcomers going out or entering the door, and should temporarily avoid them.
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Guangdong people's "heart hug" is to marry a daughter-in-law, not to hug their families, but to hug them with their hearts. "Heart-hugging tea" is the tea that her new wife presented to her parents. "Bao Xin Tea" usually contains honey and tastes sweet. The bride said, "Old people drink tea" and "Grandma drinks tea". Sister Dajin sang the words of blessing, such as "Drink the tea with a heart, you will be rich and glorious" and "Drink the tea with a heart, and your daughter-in-law will listen to your in-laws". After the parents drink this mixture, the bride and groom will add more tea. The parents of Sister Daikin and Sun Fuman show their love with gold and silver jewelry and welfare. "Holding tea in the heart" also needs to respect the elders or peers of male families and tea, which not only means thanking parents for their parenting, but also means that both sides accept the groom or bride as a new member of the family, which is a symbol of recognized status. After drinking the bride's cup of tea, the new family, grandparents and elders will send gold bracelets, jade and other jewelry as a meeting gift for the newly married wife, and also put a gift on the tray of fragrant tea (commonly known as "betel nut box") as a reward for Dajin's sister.
It is the bride and groom's patent to harvest "profit" on the same day, but the younger generation offers tea to the bride and groom, and the bride and groom paste "profit" upside down.