Why don't you get a marriage certificate first, then travel and get married, and when your dad comes out, everyone will enthusiastically fill the banquet. Nowadays, many people wait until their children are a few years old before setting a banquet. I believe that you can understand this by telling the truth to your relatives and friends.
Answer: Why don't we have a banquet at the woman's side and have some fun? On the man's side, we just invite two tables of the most important and closest people (such as my uncle, uncle, aunt, aunt, aunt, etc. Because they are the closest people, they all know the reason. There is no need to explain so much, because the closest people are for your family, and they will not ask why they only invited a few tables. When your father's affairs are clarified, we'll invite dozens of people to play at the table.