Of course, it depends on the consciousness of your future in-laws. ) This is common courtesy, showing respect and implying that you are a diligent person.
2, gifts-the first time a man goes to a woman's house, he can't return empty-handed. He always wants to buy some gifts. This is a good face for many boys.
Son thinks so, but he can't make up his mind what to buy. This gift is not much, but you must buy it. Good buy
What you see and can do is not necessarily practical (because in their minds, you are still an "outsider", so you must be decent).
Buy a cigarette and two bottles of wine for the future old Mount Tai, some favorite fruits for my mother-in-law, and some nutrients for my grandparents.
3. Politeness-the previous generation paid more attention to this. Before going to the woman's house for the first time, the man can ask you first.
Girlfriends, do they have any special manners? If not, keep a modest attitude towards the elders.
It can be said to be the greatest etiquette. When entering the woman's house, the man's mouth must be sweet, such as smiling and asking his uncle and aunt how are you.
This is the first impression (key) given by the first visit.
4, talk-in front of the woman's family, boys should smile, listen more and talk less, listen carefully to the old man's talk, and respond in time, be generous and natural when speaking, but don't get carried away, keep your sincere and sincere nature. Maybe there are some things you haven't thought about, such as adults asking, maybe you don't know how to answer, and it's much better to answer truthfully than to flatter. Old people often want feelings, but also to give your girlfriend a gesture, you can accept her. "Thank you." "You're welcome." "Don't worry about me." Always talk about it, talk about it more.
5. Topics-Avoid some sensitive topics on both sides and ask your girlfriend more about her childhood. This is a classic topic that every parent never tires of talking about, especially something to boast about. Ask some details. When their thoughts follow you, they will pay less attention to you and think that you care about their daughter.
6, clothing-the man sees the woman's parents for the first time, the clothing does not have to pay attention to how gorgeous, as long as it is neat and clean, but not too casual, the hair must be clean.
7, manner-natural, relaxed and happy. It's best to express your plans for the future in a few short sentences.
Ask for their opinions. Even if you don't agree with their answer, nod and smile, and talk about it later. Don't spoil the atmosphere this time.
Do the little things you can. Maybe they won't let you do it, but attitude is another matter.
8. Others-it is best not to meet for too long for the first time, and it is best not to stay at the woman's house. Some families are very jealous.
Don't worry about this, make a quick decision and leave as soon as possible, leaving a good expectation for the next meeting. Pay more attention to observation, such as seeing home.
If there are flowers and plants in the garden, pretend to be interested and ask how to raise them. If you see any antiques and other furniture,
You can praise it. In short, if you want to grasp your parents' hobbies, they will be very interested and think that you are kindred spirits.