The reason why you don't want to get married is angry words, just because of temporary external pressure, which makes you feel wronged, angry and stressed. . Judging from your tone, you want to be worthy of your girlfriend financially and at home, want to get a house, want to make the wedding look good, and don't want your mother-in-law to look down on you in the future, and then feel a little disgusted with your parents because of their opposition.

It's not easy for your parents to raise you. If you have the ability, you can arrange your own wedding. Home can't help you, and there's nothing to say. If your parents want to help you, it's because they are kind to you and love you dearly. . . I don't want to help you, because I have no ability. You have no right to blame them. . . . If you are under such pressure and don't want to marry your girlfriend, your marriage will end sooner or later.

I'm getting married next week, and now I suddenly don't want to get married. What should I do?

Are you dating or getting married,

First of all, how does he make you feel?

Do you think he can make you feel safe?

Did you make the decision on impulse or after careful consideration? Why do you suddenly feel inappropriate? Is it because you don't want to find a better one? Maybe you're wrong. Maybe next time you will meet a worse love. This mentality of yours is terrible. You can't really treat such feelings. It's terrible that your behavior failed to really bring the marriage together. If you are sincere, everyone will be sincere. You should consider the feelings of your family. If you are forced to get married by your family, I suggest you leave. Because you can pursue your own happiness, but it doesn't rule out that your family is right to consider you. They are all experienced people. If you marry for love, then I think you are wrong, because few people marry for love, and those who have love will eventually part. The deeper the love for marriage, there will be contradictions in the end, because neither side allows the other to have flaws. Many people can't accept the thought that the object of their love for so many years has suddenly become another person, and they will lose their temper and quarrel.

3. What if you don't want to get married when the wedding day is approaching?

You are very strange. You think he doesn't love you anymore and marries you. But are you strange to yourself? Do you love him? You don't love him, and you're going to get married?

From what you said, I think you should consider your relationship carefully. You're not worried that he doesn't love you. You can't say whether he loves you or not. Those things that you are satisfied with cannot explain why you don't love, because everyone does things in different ways and expresses them in different ways. If not, I don't think he will make fun of his marriage.

What worries me is that you don't love him, because you don't like him. Why do you accept such a marriage without a good impression?

All your troubles stem from your loneliness, because he is not around when you need to discuss marriage with him most, so you are upset, bored and uninterested.

Learn to be open-minded and understand people, and maybe you will feel better. Or maybe, so you think your marriage is still a good combination.

However, I still advise you to take a good look at your relationship and make the right decision as soon as possible!

I seem to have got the fear certificate before marriage, and suddenly I don't want to get married. What should I do?

In fact, this is a psychological problem. The fundamental reason for our fear is the uncertainty of the unknown, so we have doubts and fears.

We can't conquer all the fears, but at least we can face or overcome some of them rationally.

When you have doubts about marriage, it shows that you are not ready enough to accept marriage life firmly.

One person's life will be free, but two people's lives may not be free, because marriage requires two people to coordinate with each other, which includes responsibility, compromise, sharing, understanding, respect for hope and firm love.

Both people need to make some concessions or even some sacrifices to achieve this coordination.

I love freedom and used to be afraid of marriage, but with the maturity of my mind, I gradually understand some meanings of marriage. If I want to get married in the future, I will face this frankly.

I have thought about what happiness is, and my conclusion is sharing.

You don't have to be afraid. In fact, there is nothing to be afraid of, let alone being ill. It's just that we haven't understood the nature of marriage yet.

I wish you happiness ~ ~ ~