Why more and more women don't want to get married? I think it's because I understand that getting married and having children is not a necessity in life. The reporter asked Yang li Ping, "Do you want to dance without children?" She replied: "Some people live to carry on the family line, some people live to enjoy, some people live to experience, and some people live to watch. I am a bystander of life. I came to this world to see how a tree grows, how rivers flow, how white clouds float and how dew condenses. "
Moreover, the change of women's role and status makes the necessity of marriage weaken. In the traditional patriarchal social structure, men are responsible for obtaining resources and have the right to allocate resources. As a man's private property, women are sheltered by men, responsible for helping men maintain the continuation of blood, taking on the responsibility of cultivating future generations, and reproducing men's families from generation to generation in the form of surnames.
Daughter's marriage abroad is not a family statement, but based on this family form. With the development of social welfare, the government began to provide citizens with basic social security, and used various welfare systems to reduce the most basic living burden. Public power weakens the role of father's power in the family.
In other words, we don't face so many risks, and the meaning of family existence to resist risks is being weakened; Families no longer rely on men for resources, women can earn money, and men's power to allocate resources is also being diluted.
In the past, women got married to get rid of poverty; Nowadays, if a woman doesn't get married, it means "ensuring happiness".
Women nowadays are very different. If women in the past had few opportunities and limited personal abilities, they could not rely on individuals to create wealth and change their lives, only men could. Now women can face many choices, and even some women's personal ability far exceeds that of many men.
So more and more women don't want to get married. Welcome to interactive comments ~