According to the general customs in the north, female guests deserve more respect, because this is a lifelong event for both men and women, and just got married, so it should be. -female guests can be one level higher than other banquets, such as two more dishes (), or from the aspects of alcohol and tobacco, or from the main food. ..... Every time a banquet toasts, the banquet of the woman's guests should be very serious and grand, otherwise the guests will feel that they are not sincere enough and behave badly.

Not only at the wedding reception, but also even if the child is Yuanjiu (or full moon wine) in the next step, the guests of the woman's family should pay more attention to the specifications and grades of reception, which are higher than other banquets.

As far as I know, there are similar customs in most parts of China. This is a kind of inheritance of traditional culture and folk custom in China, and it is also a kind of compensation for the woman's family.