Compared with marriage, love does not have much sense of responsibility, and it depends entirely on the goodwill of the other party. As long as you are happy, your comfort trumps everything, but marriage is different. After marriage, you must have a certain sense of responsibility for each other, and you can't do whatever you want like when you are in love. When you are in love, there is only one other. They may think little about the future, but marriage is different. Marriage is more about two people creating a family's future, which will be more pragmatic than love. Marriage can be regarded as an upgraded version of love, but why do some people just choose to fall in love instead of getting married? Perhaps the reason why they only choose to fall in love instead of getting married is because they are unwilling to take responsibility, just to pursue the good feeling when they are in love. They pursue more feelings and don't want to pay more for this relationship, which is why "falling in love for the purpose of marriage, or playing hooligans" is the reason. During the period of love, two people have little housework to do. After all, not together. Live in separate dormitories. The same is true of eating together often. Take-out or eat in a restaurant outside. So there should be no conflict between two people in housework. But it's different after marriage. Two people together. There must be daily necessities. Therefore. Make breakfast. Clean up the housework. All aspects of family hygiene should be done by someone. This is the most troublesome thing. Often two people may often because of these small family problems. Cold war or quarrel. But this does not affect the general direction. This is often said that the running-in between husband and wife. Gradually, the two men formed their own division of labor. You do this and I'll do that. The division of family life has been formed. Basically, the running-in period has passed. People often say that marriage is a seven-year itch. It seems that this running-in period is still relatively long. The married life after the running-in period is basically happy. So the running-in period before marriage and after marriage. This is crucial. Good break-in marriage lasts longer. If you don't run in well after three or two years, it may be nine Niu Yi hairs. Therefore, both parties in marriage should tolerate each other. Understand and support each other. Marriage can be more happy.