My husband hugged me at that time and said, it's all fate. Many things and many destinies are doomed, just like you and me. I am a little unhappy to say, what fate? Would I have married you if you hadn't lied to me? At that time, your family was so poor that I married you, but there was no bride price at home, and I was given tens of thousands of dowry. Do you think this is fate? Why do I feel stupid?
My husband listened to my words and immediately comforted me. A firm commitment will be good to me. But I didn't expect my husband and I to be listened to by my mother-in-law Although my sister-in-law's husband is an orphan, he is very kind to my sister-in-law. When my sister-in-law said one, he decided not to say two. Sister-in-law said to go east, and he would never go west. And my husband and sister-in-law are also very good. He graduated from a famous university.
Without his parents, he can have such a car and house. He must be very capable. According to my mother-in-law, he gave her 0.2 million/200 thousand bride price. In fact, it is because he is so excellent and perfect that I am worried that my sister-in-law will be unhappy when she gets married. But what's the use of me worrying alone? As my husband said, everything is fate, destiny takes a hand, so I didn't think much.
On my sister-in-law's wedding day, my husband and I discussed how much to send. My husband said, watch your hair. Everyone is a family, there is no need to be too stranger. I nodded and said, then send three thousand. My husband paused for a moment and said, well, anyway, my brother-in-law has the ability, and it doesn't make much difference to give more or less. So my husband and I decided to send 3 thousand when my sister-in-law got married.
My husband was busy with my sister-in-law's wedding, so I went to register and sent her 3 thousand. The registered person is our neighbor. He said, your sister-in-law gets married, and you only send 3 thousand? I said with a smile, we are all family, and we can do what we say. Then I went to work. I know everyone is an acquaintance, so it's okay to joke. But I'm still a little uncomfortable and depressed all day.
Until the end of the banquet in the evening, my mother-in-law came over and looked at me and said, Lili, are you sick? I shook my head listlessly and said, no, I was helping to pack things, but my mother-in-law took me aside and sat down and said, Lili, you have been married to my son for four or five years. Over the years, we all know that you have suffered a lot with him. Now our conditions are getting better and better.
So we also want to make it up to you. I heard that you gave 3 thousand today? I nodded and said, yes, is mom missing something? My mother-in-law immediately said, a lot. That's enough. Your sister-in-law also specifically told her that she didn't want your money. She knows that our family will send her to college in the future and bring all the bride price money to your family for her to go to college. You sent 3000 yuan today, which is quite a lot. It is a blessing for our family to have a daughter-in-law like you.
I gave my sister-in-law three thousand yuan when she got married. After the banquet, my mother-in-law took me to talk, and I was ashamed! I'm a little embarrassed to say, mom, this is what I should do. My mother-in-law took my hand and continued: "Your sister-in-law husband has a bride price of 200,000. Didn't I tell you?" ? In fact, it's not all a bride price, there are hundreds of thousands, which your sister-in-law asked you to provide for you. So you can also pay a down payment for a suite in the city. She remembers all your kindness to her.
I don't know whether my sister-in-law gave me the money or my mother-in-law heard my conversation with my husband that day before making such a decision, but whatever the reason, I am a little ashamed. I don't know whether I should accept the money. After repeated weighing, I decided not to let my mother-in-law give me this100000. My husband is right. We are a family, not two families.