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I wrote an article about the difficult relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Compared with the mother-daughter relationship, the mother-in-law relationship is naturally not so close. Generally, there will be no overnight feud between mother and daughter, but mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are different. In contrast, you will find that the root of the contradiction is that there is always one party who does not regard the other as one of their own.

What mother would deliberately have the heart to give her daughter leftovers? What do daughters and mothers have to hate? Hold the table in front of them. Daughters know their mother's dependence on them, and mothers naturally love and tolerate their daughters. But how many mothers who are mother-in-law can be truly selfless after their daughter-in-law gets married?

The daughter-in-law is someone else's daughter after all, and the mother-in-law is someone else's mother after all, but they don't know that it is not only the two sides themselves but also the man caught in the middle. This man is a beloved son of one party, and one party has to entrust her husband for life.

The woman's second marriage was rejected by her mother-in-law

After graduating from Xiaowen University, the woman quickly married the blind date. It is typical to get married first and then fall in love. Only after marriage did she find out that her husband had a bad habit of drinking, but she began to worry about her parents and buried the idea of divorce in her heart, but she lived a very wronged life.

Although finally divorced, but parents because of face, can't let the divorced daughter live in her family, Xiaowen had to rent out alone. Xiaowen thinks life is gloomy. Can a divorced daughter still have love? What will life be like in the future?

However, Jiahao's intrusion, like a dawn, lit up Xiaowen's gloomy life and rekindled her love spark. Jiahao is sincere and doesn't mind Xiaowen's previous marriage failure. I'm sure Xiaowen is an excellent woman.

Xiaowen's heart opened, and she had the courage to step into marriage again. Xiaowen's parents, after observing Jiahao for a period of time, also found that Jiahao was practical and reliable, not a glib person.

It's just that Jiahao's mother seems not satisfied with this future daughter-in-law, but Jiahao told Xiaowen not to care too much, because her father died young and she was brought up by her mother alone, so it's normal to be hostile to her, and time will change the relationship.

Unexpectedly, one thing that happened after marriage still made Xiaowen unbearable. On this day, Xiaowen and her mother-in-law waited for her husband to eat at home after work. Her husband suddenly had something to do and said that he would not come back to eat.

Mother-in-law heard that her son wouldn't come back for dinner, so she turned around and put the newly cooked dishes on the table, leaving only a plate of fish and half a bowl of tomato and egg soup left at noon. ? Mom, why did you put the food away? Aren't we going to dinner? ?

These two dishes are enough. Those newly cooked dishes are for Xiao Ming to eat when he comes back from work. We can just eat what is left at noon, otherwise it would be a pity to waste it. ? Xiaowen explained to her mother-in-law that eating leftovers is not good, and it is easy to breed bacteria, which is not good for your health.

Xiaowen kindly advised her mother-in-law, hoping to correct her thoughts. Who knows that my mother-in-law suddenly put down the bowl chopsticks? Married to our family, I am used to eating leftovers! ? . This made Xiaowen feel a little uncomfortable, so she scolded her mother-in-law and said, If you save money, Jiahao will eat leftovers with us. Why are you so weird?

But my mother-in-law didn't realize her problems at all, and she became a Bangladeshi. No wonder you divorced because you didn't cherish your husband so much! I didn't agree with my son to get a second marriage. He wouldn't listen. This good woman should be loyal to her life. I've been raising him alone for so many years, and I never thought about remarriage. This good woman should have only one man! ?

I didn't expect my mother-in-law to satirize herself with such ugly words. In desperation, Tian Tian overturned the dining table and dropped his chopsticks all over the floor. ? What happened to the second marriage? I'm not a leftover woman from my second marriage! Second marriage, I am also a good woman! Li Xiaoming and I are in free love, and no one forced him. We really like each other and appreciate each other to get to this point. I didn't know you had such a big opinion of me, but what I want to say is that if you insinuate like this again, I will tear up the leftovers once. ?

In case of unhappy marriage, some people will choose divorce to end this tortuous past. But don't divorced women have the right to pursue their own happiness? Of course, and I think divorced women often know how to cherish their husbands and families better. What they lack is the affirmation of self-charm and self-ability.

Even if divorced, you can take the initiative to strive for your own happiness, and you can have the same confidence and courage.

In fact, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is sometimes really difficult to reconcile. Only when both sides look at the problem from each other's perspective can there be real improvement, otherwise there will be direct conflict, which will hurt not only themselves, but also two men who love each other.