"Why do people lose confidence in life?"

"It's because I'm too free."

Some people are energetic, knowledgeable and practical, but as long as they lie in bed, Ge You is the same.

It is a blessing to take time off from busy work, but it is inevitable to be discouraged if you are idle for too long.

Idling around all day, one person is ruined.

Drucker once said, "If you count your time, you will find that you spend most of your energy on meaningless things."

There is no limit to what you want to do, and time is always limited.

I'm afraid time has paid for bitter tea, and all my wishes have been given to quicksand.

For people who are idle all day, it is meaningless to know that time is not counted.

Urban, a blogger, told a TED talk about his painful experience of writing a paper in a hurry:

He planned it perfectly. At first, he wrote slowly, and gradually worked hard to draw a Pareto diagram.

A 90-page paper, written in one year, looks easy.

But he stopped writing in the first few months, brushed movies and watched gossip, wandered around and thought about making progress, and flew away in the middle of a few months, only a few papers had words.

Time from a month, two weeks, to only three days left, he finally rushed into the study room in fear and trembling.

I stayed up late for two consecutive nights and hurried out for the last 72 hours. I almost didn't pay it.

Recalling the teacher's expression and his grades, he stood on the stage and shook his head: "Super invincible!" " "

Forced to endure dark circles, there is only one "super bad" harvest, just like the epitome of every idle person's life.

Clearly eager, clearly planned, close at hand, instantly shattered.

Said that life is too bitter, and it was ruined by myself.

Step by step, slow and steady, even if things are difficult.

Don't wait for your ambition to be idle, and then complain that things have no result.

Many things are not forced by you, and there is no deadline. When leisure becomes a habit, there is no motivation to struggle again.

At the end of my leisure time, I find it difficult to work hard.

There is a post on the Internet: "I have just worked for two months. What if I want to quit?"

The landlord stayed at home for a whole year last year. Every day, he is in a daze, sitting on the sofa, eating snacks, how to live comfortably.

By February this year, there were too many gossips between relatives and friends, and he finally went to look for a job.

Because I haven't experienced this kind of pain for too long, my head is almost cracked and I feel groggy and uncomfortable at the thought of going to work.

I usually stay alone. When I see my colleagues and clients, I want to hide behind and ignore them.

He hates work more. Whenever he comes to a new job, he feels flustered, just like a stone, and naturally he can't do it well.

In the face of his complaints, someone pertinently suggested:

"If you are too lazy to get up, work nine to five, and have fun only two days a week, then don't quit."

Bad habits are really easier to form than good habits. Laziness and laziness are a cycle.

The more I don't go out, the less I want to move my legs, the less I want to read, the less I want to turn my head, and the more idle I am, the less I have the courage to look outside.

We all want to indulge ourselves for a while and for a lifetime, but this is not the case. Many things are not whether you want to face them or not, but what you have to face.

As the master said, "learn to live by yourself."

If you are afraid of things, you always avoid them. The more you run away from things, the more you are afraid of things.

Before I was in trouble, my first thought was to escape. Before I needed to fight, I realized my cowardice.

You have nothing to do, you have wasted your life.

People who are too lazy to do things and have no time to act will always find time to be anxious.

When I talk to my friends, I always feel that others will misunderstand me and stay up all night.

If you accidentally brush the news, you always feel that the other party is connoting yourself.

If you don't want to do what you should do and have nothing to do, many people can't cope with anything, but it doesn't prevent you from always looking for trouble.

Writer Li Xiaoyi met an idle old lady when she was an intern reporter.

When I answered the phone, I heard her chanting, "I have a son who is in his thirties and has no object." I want you to give him a blind date. "

"My son is in good condition and has several houses ..."

Li Xiaoyi began to patiently explain that the hotline here is for news, regardless of blind date.

However, regardless of chatting at home, the old lady never mentions news clues.

After 20 minutes, Li Xiaoyi finally couldn't help it: "We really don't have this service here, and I am very busy at work now. If nothing happens, I'll hang up first. "

The tone of the tone is all physical, but it touches the old lady's fragile nerves.

Soon she was complained, and the old man rushed to the newspaper to scold her.

What puzzled her even more was that the director knew that she had been wronged, coaxed the old man from beginning to end, and promised to give the newspaper away.

When the old lady left, the director made her understand: "People who want to do things must not provoke those who are too idle, and must be sent away quickly."

As "Parchment" said: "People are really busy and have no complicated emotions at all. Only when they are too idle will they take those trivial things seriously. "

In the eyes of idle people, there are the most people who are against themselves, and their hearts are busy and messy. When shit becomes business, small things become big things, and everything is in their eyes.

Busy, calm down and don't even take things seriously.

You choose what you want.

All the pain, all the affectation, are gone when you are busy.

People who work hard in a down-to-earth way are not bothered by hardships, and they don't feel bitter when they encounter hardships.

Radio anchor Cheng Yi used to be a wedding host in Henan.

Not content to shout at the top of his lungs all his life, he decided to go to Beijing to find a job.

I submitted a lot of resumes when I first applied, but they were all rejected. I singled out his education and said that he could not appreciate taste.

But he didn't have time to worry, so he set up his own radio station early. No matter what the response is, he records and broadcasts on time every day, accompanying every stranger.

When the momentum improved, he continued to recruit, provide advice to employees and moved his studio to a large office building.

Although she didn't show her face, Cheng Yi kept on keeping fit and lost 40 pounds.

Those who said he couldn't develop were silent, rejected his resume and even applied for a job in his company.

Every day's hardships will inevitably be dealt with, every minute will be enriched, and your memory will only be beautiful.

Seeing that all the efforts have blossomed and the sweat has meaning, my heart is really comfortable.

Stick to it for a long time, and you won't feel bored when you are old.

Qi Baishi, a 90-year-old man, still insists on painting five pictures every day, persuading no one to rest.

Only on his birthday, friends and guests from home came in a pile, which never stopped from morning till night. He was not energetic enough at night, so he lay down and fell asleep.

The next day he got up and went to draw without eating.

After painting five paintings, he continued to spread out rice paper and splash ink. His family was afraid that he would be exhausted: "Isn't the five you drew enough?"

However, he said, "There were many guests yesterday, so I didn't draw it. Today, I will make up for yesterday's leisure. "

At this level, he no longer seeks fame, and at this age, he is even less profitable.

He thinks, draws, plays erhu and practices calligraphy every day. Qi Baishi is less thoughtful and more childish, but much more peaceful and comfortable.

Being busy is an infinite gift.

Being busy is also a positive attitude, stable and optimistic.

Busy, hard-working, carefree, worried, have been cured.

Caigen Tan said, "If life is too idle, don't try to drag out an ignoble existence."

The online paragraph said: "People who are too idle will be abolished, and money who is too idle will be inflated."

I just want to say, "You have to find something to do in this life."

Idle, idle all day, really not as comfortable as it looks.

It will make you break your plan and start to retreat until there is nothing left in your life.

After half a life, you will understand that only being busy can cure all kinds of human beings.

Busy with your own busy things, enjoy your own happy things, and live a full and happy life.

Author | Taxus chinensis, after 90, Iron Lady, pen can become a knife, eyebrows and eyes are smiling.

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