One: How to choose the right groomsman and bridesmaid You must be careful not to be careless when choosing the right groomsman. Your close friend/brother/cousin in college or even your primary school classmate you haven't seen for years may try their best to be the best man, but whoever the best man is, he should at least know something about bridesmaids. How to choose the right best man/bridesmaid, we give the following suggestions. The number of groomsmen/bridesmaids can be determined according to the number of people. The best man/bridesmaid had better be male and female, although it all depends on you and your financial ability. If you want to have fewer groomsmen, but don't want to offend your friends, you can let them be ushers. They can give their seats to guests in camel dresses like everyone else. This can avoid offending anyone and bad hospitality. Brothers and sisters can choose the best man, which is not your own business. Your bride may have already planned to let her favorite brother be the best man. On the contrary, if you want your closest sister to be a bridesmaid, the bride will agree. There is no need to completely follow the tradition on this issue. If you are open-minded, your sister can stand on your side and play the role of traditional maid of honor, while the bride's brother can accompany her. Only a responsible person should be the best man with some taste. Because he will make a toast at the wedding reception, you certainly don't want him to say anything inappropriate. He should also be responsible, because he will keep the ring that the groom gave to the bride at that time. In addition, the most important thing is that he must be humorous, because the groom's bachelor party was organized by his companion Lang. Choose an activist in your life as the best man. If you don't find out that you and your best man are not in the same language until the night before the wedding. It is too late. What you need at this time is not nervousness, but someone to accompany Lang before/during/after the wedding. With this in mind, you won't make the mistake of choosing people who forget their rings, get drunk at the wedding or concentrate on other places as the best man. If you take the right step, you can relax. Second, bridesmaids/groomsmen should all do it. Usually, the couple will invite a female companion as a bridesmaid, and some people will invite 6_ 12 girlfriends or sisters, one of whom is a bridesmaid, and some people call it "companion marriage". When there is only one bridesmaid, some grooms will invite 2_6 friends to follow the motorcade to marry the bride, so that the bride's family looks beautiful. Everyone is called "the best man" except one. Bridesmaids are the partners and representatives of newlyweds. Except for the wedding banquet and the bridal chamber, the tasks of the best man and the bridesmaid are slightly different. Many times, they need to complete the following two tasks: task 1: personal butler 1: always accompany the newlyweds, especially when the newlyweds are on the stage, the best man/maid of honor must wait at the side of the stage. 2. Always pay attention to the image of newlyweds. For example, help newlyweds simply tidy up their suits. It's the best man's job to open the door, pick up the things in the couple's hands and help them to keep good manners. When the newcomer is thirsty, he will pass the water; When you see a couple crying, hand in a tissue in time. Many newlyweds forget to rest because they are busy or excited, so bridesmaids and groomsmen must remember to remind them. 4. Be familiar with the personal belongings and staff arrangement of the newcomers, so as to better help them coordinate and share. Bridesmaids should especially know the shoes, underwear and accessories needed for the bride's dress, and take care of the changed ones. 5. Qualified bridesmaids and groomsmen should try their best to ease and appease the tension of the couple. Task 2: Newcomer Representative 1: When marrying the bride, the bridesmaid should try her best to "groom" and don't let him take the bride away easily. Try to let the bride enjoy the happiness and glory of marriage. The best man should "fight" for the groom together with the bridesmaids and other sister groups to help the groom win justice and find the beauty smoothly. 2. Welcome: The bridesmaid's task is to welcome new people and pay attention to their appearance, while the best man and the best man should do most of the reception work. 3. Banquet: When someone has a problem and the bride is slightly embarrassed, the bridesmaid should stand up, and it is not a time to be shy next to the bride. The best man has the responsibility to help the groom stop drinking, not to mention pushing. 4. By candlelight: light a candle gun for the couple and follow it. 5. During the ceremony: when seeing off the witness and respecting the parents and elders, see off both parents. 6. When making trouble in the bridal chamber, the best man should lead the guests to make trouble from the beginning. (full of oriental flavor, newcomers have face. If not, the best man will take the lead, grasp the scale after the beginning, and finally see the couple off. A bridesmaid is similar to a best man, but you should pay attention to your words and deeds. The key is to jump out to help the bride out of trouble, find ways to divert her attention from embarrassment, and play some special games that the bride is good at, so that the bride will not suffer. And very tasteful. If you can get so many groomsmen and bridesmaids, it must be a blessing for the couple. Third, the best man and bridesmaid always wear formal clothes or dresses. If the best man can put on a dress (such as a uniform Zhongshan suit), it will be a landscape. It is best for bridesmaids to wear beautiful little dresses, which are not only beautiful but also set off the bride. Of course, they must move easily and don't let clothes distract them. After all, their main job is to look after the bride. In addition, it should be noted that bridesmaids and groomsmen's dresses should be consistent with the main color of the wedding. Four: bridesmaid/groomsman memorandum 1: Sometimes bridesmaids will take the responsibility of keeping red envelopes. Please prepare an exquisite but large handbag in advance, and remember to give it to the financial supervisor or his parents designated by the couple before the ceremony, and ask them to keep it properly. 2. Remind the couple not to forget the ring, or keep the ring for the couple, and make sure to give it to the person designated at the table before the ceremony. Holding the ring, the bridesmaid must remember to pay attention to her position, so as not to become the "third party" in the photo, and then the hand that helps the bride hold the flowers. If flower girl is holding the ring, please ask the maid of honor to take care of him or her. 4. The groomsman and bridesmaid convey the new couple's voice on the wedding day. Don't hesitate to find relevant staff in time, help newcomers convey their wishes and let professionals provide services for newcomers. Never make a decision without authorization. Of course, if you plan to hire a professional wedding planner, it doesn't matter whether the best man and bridesmaid have experience. The wedding planner will not only arrange the details of the wedding, but also guide and remind the best man and bridesmaid of their work, position and etiquette in the ceremony. Even arrange a new secretary to perform part of the work of bridesmaid and best man. As a professional planner, we still recommend that the couple try to choose a professional etiquette lady during the wedding. The reasons are as follows: 1 is the bridesmaid and the best man. It will be very hard to follow the bride and groom from the early morning of the wedding day to the end of the wedding reception that night. It is often the first time that bridesmaids and groomsmen play such an important role in a wedding, or it may be the first time to face the camera and spotlight, so it is inevitable that they will be nervous. Bridesmaids and groomsmen are inexperienced in many weddings, and may make mistakes in the wedding process, such as appearing at an inappropriate time, blocking the camera, and looking heavy. Therefore, it is very necessary to choose the right person to help you complete a high-quality wedding.