Love and marriage should be honest, and being honest with each other will lead to happiness. By means of deception and concealment, even if you get married, you will not be happy. Now is not the time to marry a chicken and follow a dog.
Those couples who get married honestly will divorce because they are unhappy, not to mention cheating and hiding their marriage. And because of cheating and hiding, you will be very tired. Some things you cheat for a while, but not for a lifetime.
Nowadays, people are more tolerant of cohabitation before marriage, but as girls, it is better to be cautious. Failure in love hurts girls more than boys, especially unmarried pregnant girls.
If the boyfriend is a responsible person, that's fine. You can get married when you are a child. But if her boyfriend is a scum man, the girl is in trouble. Will the baby be born or miscarried? Abortion will hurt the girl's health, but her boyfriend will not be affected.
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It is said that life is like a play, and sometimes life is really like a play. When my friend's son Tang Xiao got married, he did an incredible thing. He even announced his divorce at the wedding. At that time, everyone didn't know why. Later, my friend told me that the original problem was that girl.
Tang Xiao and his girlfriend are high school classmates. His girlfriend was sitting in front of him. His deskmate is a boy named Wang. They have a good relationship. After graduating from high school, he went to college and went into business with his father. His girlfriend didn't go to college and went to work in a factory.
After graduating from Xiaotang University, I met my girlfriend by chance, and they fell in love. They are in frequent contact with Wang, and their relationship is still very good. Later, Wang got married under the arrangement of his parents and attended the wedding with his girlfriend.
Two years later, Tang Xiao and his girlfriend are getting married. When they talk about marriage, everything goes well. The wedding was held in a five-star hotel, and a special wedding company was invited. Tang Xiao's parents took out their life savings.
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At the wedding, there is a link in which the host wants the bride and groom and their parents to take the stage. Before the show started, the bride went to the bathroom and Tang Xiao was waiting for her. When the bride didn't come back for a long time, the host urged Tang Xiao, so Tang Xiao ran to the bathroom to meet the bride.
As a result, I saw the bride talking to her classmate Wang in a corner at the door of the bathroom. Excited, he went to call the bride, but he overheard the conversation between the bride and Wang.
The bride said, "How do you want me to tell the child that you are his father?"
The king said to him, "If it's hard to say, don't say it. Anyway, we just know it. I can't live without that woman. When I divorce her, my family will be finished. You're only one month pregnant. Tang Xiao won't find out. "
When Tang Xiao heard this, his breathing stopped. He never dreamed that this would happen. It turned out that his girlfriend had a relationship with Wang behind his back, and he was stupid enough to marry his girlfriend.
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Xiao Tang waited for a while and turned back to the banquet hall, then sat on the stool without saying a word.
Until the bride comes back, the host announces the start of the ceremony, and then the bride and groom and their parents take the stage. When the host asked the groom to speak, Tang Xiao announced his divorce. He said that today's wedding banquet will be changed into an ordinary banquet, and the red envelopes and other banquets given by everyone will be returned to everyone after the banquet.
When Tang Xiao finished speaking, he put down the receiver and left, which shocked everyone. Both parents immediately asked the bride what was going on. The bride said she didn't know, but she finally knew. Wang, a classmate at the guest table, knew well, but neither he nor the bride told the truth.
Tang Xiao's parents were very angry at first, and immediately called Tang Xiao, but Tang Xiao turned off her phone. They sent someone to look for Tang Xiao, and then they received a reply from the person who was sent. The old couple didn't say anything, and then the wedding was done as Tang Xiao said.
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When my friends told me this, I really thought Tang Xiao was a very cultured person. If you crush others, you may directly expose the true face of the bride at the wedding, which may be even more embarrassing.
Later, I heard that the girl had an abortion and fell out with that classmate Wang. She wants to marry Tang Xiao, but she just regards Tang Xiao as a man who picks up girls. This kind of thing is unacceptable to most people, so it is human nature for Tang Xiao to ask for a divorce.
If two people want to get married, it will take a lifetime. If one party has an outside heart, it will definitely not be happy after marriage. Besides, there is no windtight wall in this world. The girl thinks she can cheat the world, and she can cheat for a while, but she can't cheat for a lifetime.
If Tang Xiao really marries that girl, there will be more trouble in the future. The secret will be revealed sooner or later, and more people will be hurt, especially the child. Therefore, every girl should lead an honest and clean life, and don't make human tragedies and harm others and themselves.