As for marriage, it is up to you who you want to marry. You can choose tall, short, fat, thin, honest, smart ... carrots and vegetables, to your liking. As long as you really love each other and the other really loves you, this marriage will be happy.
Not only that, you can also have many choices about what kind of ceremony a marriage should start with. It's up to you whether it's a Chinese celebration, a Western romance or even an ancient aesthetic.
Of course, about marriage, everyone wants their wedding to be a bright spot on the road of life. However, everything should be done according to one's ability, whether grand or simple, is often decided according to the other's economic ability.
There is no denying that everyone has their own ideas about the wedding. Some people think that weddings are just a formality. As long as two people really love each other, the wedding can be easier. After all, saving money to live is not a bad thing.
Similarly, some people think that a person's life, such a wedding, whether poor or rich, should do their best to make it grand.
In Messi's view, there is nothing wrong with these two ideas, but what to choose in the end requires certain knowledge of men and women. Otherwise, one party decides without authorization, or one party participates too little, which is likely to make both parties unhappy.
The man's simple wedding was humiliated by the girls in public, and the wedding was cancelled in a rage: I won't accompany him. For women's princess dreams, Messi can actually understand, but women must understand that dreams are dreams and reality is reality.
Fang Zhiyun and Xia Yuan have been in love for two years, during which there were too many on-off and on-off, but they were all trivial matters. Now, however, the two have had a fierce dispute over the wedding, and finally they even parted ways.
Because the family conditions are not particularly good, considering the married life, Fang Zhiyun thinks that the wedding should be simpler. He thought that if the wedding was simpler, he would save a lot of money. The money saved would not only make his life with Xia Yuan more comfortable, but also save for a rainy day.
However, Xia Yuan disagreed with Fang Zhiyun's proposal. She thinks that a person's life is like a wedding, and it must be grand. Moreover, as a woman, everyone wants to get married and tell the world that they have married a good husband.
Because of their different ideas and thinking angles, the two have been arguing about this matter until the wedding day, and they have not reached a clear result. Fang Zhiyun was in charge of the wedding, so he finally arranged it according to his own wishes.
Speaking of which, Fang Zhiyun still loves Xia Yuan very much. When they fell in love, Fang Zhiyun gave her salary to Xia Yuan, and she tried to satisfy what Xia Yuan wanted in her daily life. Only at the wedding did Fang Zhiyun really feel that there was no need to make a fuss. After all, he and Xia Yuan's family are not rich.
However, Xia Yuan has always had a princess dream and wanted a fairy-tale wedding. At first, Fang Zhiyun thought of interpreting a dream for her, but after careful consideration, if it is really in accordance with the standards of Xia Yuan, if it is not a banquet wedding, it will cost thousands.
Hundreds of thousands, this number is not a decimal for Fang Zhiyun. You know, in his budget, the whole wedding is only fifty or sixty thousand.
So, when the wedding approached, Fang Zhiyun bent over and did not discuss with Xia Yuan again, but did it himself. The hotel is a cost-effective hotel in the city, and the wedding site layout is not very good, but it is passable. Generally speaking, this wedding, like most weddings, is not outstanding but definitely not fall in price.
As a result, the day before the wedding, Xia Yuan's face was unhappy instead of happiness and expectation. She knew that Fang Zhiyun didn't follow her wishes, and her princess dream was shattered, so even if she was going to get married, she always felt almost nothing.
Xia Yuan's parents saw through her daughter's mind and suggested that she would make do with it when things had come to this. That day, after careful consideration, Xia Yuan decided to listen to her parents, even though she was unhappy.
The next day, the wedding was held as scheduled, the guests arrived one after another, the banquet was full of laughter, and the atmosphere of the wedding was more than half. However, when the bride came in, people began to whisper. Because everyone with eyes can see that the bride looks unhappy and unhappy.
Looking at Xia Yuan coming towards him with a straight face, Fang Zhiyun calmed down and was greeted with a smile. As a result, when the master of ceremonies finished the blessing speech and Fang Zhiyun showed his true feelings, Xia Yuan walked past Fang Zhiyun willfully and knelt down regardless of the facts.
Perhaps Fang Zhiyun spoiled Xia Yuan too much during his love, so Xia Yuan always likes to show off his love and colorful life in front of his friends. Now everything at the wedding scene is obviously different from what she boasted before, and she feels embarrassed.
Later, Fang Zhiyun put up with it again, and Xia Yuan made trouble again and again. Finally, Xia Yuan didn't hold back immediately. At the wedding, he let out the fire he had been holding in his heart for a long time. It's a shame for the other Zhiyun, almost talking about Fang Zhiyun's usual shortcomings.
It doesn't matter if a man is proud at home, even if he is outside at ordinary times, he will ask a woman to save his face, not to mention today's occasion?
Therefore, Fang Zhiyun was so angry that he said to his relatives and friends, "If the wedding is cancelled today, I will treat you to dinner. Everyone just needs to eat and drink well." Say that finish, leaving stupefied Xia Yuan, Fang Zhiyun directly left the wedding scene.
Originally, the two planned to get a license after getting married, but I didn't expect it to be like this at the wedding. Xia Yuan also silly, complaining at ordinary times, Fang Zhiyun is ordering her, she never thought that Fang Zhiyun would leave her like this, or even really make a clean break with her.
Later, Xia Yuan bowed his head and prayed for peace, but Fang Zhiyun only said to her: Keep dreaming of your princess, I'm sorry!
West sister emotional message:
Marriage needs a sense of ceremony, so a romantic wedding has become the first threshold to enter marriage. However, some women, like Xia Yuan, really go too far. They have princess disease but no princess life.
Speaking of the wonderful girl at the wedding, Messi thought of a female guest in the love war. She not only asked for a romantic wedding, but also asked the man's parents to bungee jump before the wedding, give her a blessing when bungee jumping, and then play this blessing at the wedding.
To tell the truth, when Messi was watching the program, the thought flashed in his mind: "Divide it, this woman is too much!" Although the two did not separate in the end, Messi still felt that if this woman did not change, their relationship or marriage would still go wrong.
About marriage, there is a saying that is right: marriage is actually just a dull day. Indeed, whether two people are happy after marriage is not directly related to whether the wedding is grand or not. On the contrary, if it is for the wedding, it will completely ignore each other's feelings and even embarrass each other in public. Such feelings are not worth mentioning.
In Messi's view, love must be mutual, so when a woman makes such a request to a man, she should also think: What have you paid for him? What did you pay for this marriage or wedding?
Everything should be considered comprehensively, and everything should be done according to one's ability. Two people live a good life in a down-to-earth manner, but it is better than those superficial glitz.
Finally, Messi would like to say a few words: the establishment of a relationship is not easy, and it takes a lot of time, energy and money, so both of them should cherish it. Between husband and wife, the most important thing is to respect each other and be able to consider problems from each other's standpoint, so always think of each other, and don't let years of hard work go to waste because of some small things.