1, and found a Pingyao daughter-in-law, who is now married and has children. We all go to school and work outside, and I have been troubled by the bride price for a while. It is not easy for our parents to provide us with schooling. I can't afford the bride price. I made money to give, but I didn't give that much.

2, the woman's banquet money is also paid by the man. Women don't marry anything;

3. Personally, 8 weeks is reasonable. I heard it's 6- 12w, depending on whether the woman's mouth is cruel or not.

It is irrational to give up working in a big city and go to work in a small county in Pingyao. 80% of the country's small counties are inferior to big cities.

5, don't be carried away by feelings, feelings can't maintain 40% marriage stability. Love talks about feelings, marriage talks about life and money. After marriage, if you have no money and can't afford a daughter-in-law, you are allowed to divorce.

My thoughts:

1, men and women get married to live, and the woman should take the initiative to bear the responsibility of the family economy. As long as the woman doesn't pay a large amount of bride price money, she still doesn't bear the debt repayment responsibility after marriage. Where to start, girls' family status can only bring family disharmony;

2. People who go to high school don't need so much money. Who can afford it? Some families have several boys, and their parents pay for their schooling and marry them. Who knows how much they need, they can figure it out themselves. 80% families can't afford it.

The thinking point of the above content is to consider Shanxi locals looking for locals and families with boys and girls at home.

My suggestion: you should think about your future life and career development, and then talk about whether to get married or not, and then talk about how much bride price to give if you get married. A man's career is more important than bride price money.