Giving her a bride price when getting married is also called giving her a day. Many bride price gifts are given on the same day, and some things will use red ribbons. This red ribbon knot is exquisite, but you can't tie the usual dead knot. You should tie a bow or like a red flower.
Then there is what the bride price is. Every place has its own customs. Let's share it.
My home is divided into four sides, six sides and six sides.
According to the conditions of each family, decide how much dowry to send.
For example, the dowry in Siping is four things. There are also two bottles of wine, two boxes of snacks, two Jin of sugar and at least eight apples.
The price of wine is relatively expensive, which should be higher than that of 200 yuan. Pastries should be famous brands, and sugar should also be famous brands, such as Xu Fuji's. Apples should be big and red.
A sure dowry and a good dowry mean a few more things, such as wine, cakes, sugar and fruit, which are much more than those in Siping. The other two things are different, but they are both advanced things.
Wine means wishing the young couple a long life.
Pastry means wishing the young couple a better life in the future.
Sugar means, may the young couple be sweet forever and never part.
What Apple means is that I hope two people will live together in peace, happiness and happiness forever.
There is also a vermicelli delivery, which means that I hope the young couple will always have a smooth ride.
And noodles, similar to vermicelli. They all wish the young couple happiness forever.
There is also the marriage customs in other regions, which I want to share with you.
1. Gifts that men should prepare
Engagement gifts: gold ornaments (rings, bracelets, necklaces, etc. ) and watches.
Gift cake: four-color sugar (orange cake, winter melon candy, rock sugar and candy), tea, a pair of dragon and phoenix candles, a pair of incense sticks, a pair of ancestral paper and a pair of dragon and phoenix cannons. Drink offering (a bottle of wine, a hand-washing chicken)
There is a box of headdress flowers, half a pig (or eighteen or thirty-six foreign hams), six bundles of noodles and twenty-four bottles of good wine in Fuyuan Dou, Tangzai Road.
Gifts for the woman (clothes, purses, shoes. . . . Wait a minute. )
Banquet ceremony (table pressing ceremony)
Matchmaker's ceremony: according to local customs, you can prepare another instrument: kitchen instrument: chef's ceremony instrument: dish-side service instrument: washbasin-side water ceremony instrument: welcome reception instrument: makeup ceremony: tea-holding instrument: thank you for your kindness in raising children's sedan chair instrument: invite the bride to sedan chair ceremony: a chicken, a piece of pork and a squid.
2. Gifts that women should prepare
Gift-giving: a red envelope gift for the man to help the woman with the betrothal gift.
Sweet tea: glutinous rice balls and snacks.
A banquet for this man's guests.
Five grain seeds, raw charcoal, wick, cotton, broken bags, brown sugar, lead money, lead powder, abdomen circumference. A pot of pomegranate and a pot of osmanthus.
Gifts returned to the man (shoes, belts, wallets. . . . Wait a minute. )
For China people, some traditional engagement customs should be inherited to some extent.
Dowry amount given by a married man to a woman:
It mainly includes two parts: one is the article; The second is the gift money. There are no standard figures and no hard and fast rules. It depends on one's own economic strength and planning for one's married life, and comprehensively considers how much dowry to give.
Generally, the sum of the gifts of bride price will be an auspicious number. For example, the number of 8 or 9 is repeated (for example, 888,9999). Try not to have 4 and 7 in the amount of gifts. For the bride price, husband and wife should discuss and understand each other. When the couple reach an agreement, they should also seek their parents' opinions and try their best to persuade them. Of course, the best way is to explain to parents the life foundation and life plan of husband and wife after marriage, and also to explain that they will honor their parents for a long time, so that the elders can rest assured of the future pension problem. Only in this way can we all be happy.