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After graduation, my friend's brother Wang Xu joined a private enterprise and became an ordinary clerk in the office.
At that time, the office work was well paid.
At a classmate's party, everyone advised him: "Office work is highly replaceable, and you can learn some technical work in your spare time."
Wang Xu said, "I'm almost thirty, so why bother?"
Another student listened, and three years later, he got the "Certified Public Accountant".
Wang Xu was envious: "I knew I had learned."
His friend advised him, "You are good at English, so you can learn translation."
Wang Xu said, "How can I remember at my age?"
Another friend with good English listened to it and became a "simultaneous interpreter" a few years later.
Wang Xu regretted it: "If I had known, I would have studied."
In recent years, the office administrative treatment has hardly increased. Wang Xu envied the success of others, while coveting the ease of work.
Seeing the success of others, we often have envy, but few people will think deeply about the effort and sweat behind others' success.
There is no pie that can't be dropped. It's just that you don't want to make it, and someone makes it for you.
Many times, you envy others to live the life you imagine, but you can. The only distance between you and your dream is action.
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/kloc-in the autumn of 0/982, 33-year-old Haruki Murakami had an idea: "I want to be a novelist."
From the birth of this idea, he set himself a firm writing mode: get up at four o'clock in the morning, make coffee, eat snacks, write a manuscript after eating, write ten pages, and then start running and deal with chores. At dusk, I will have a good time. I will not continue to work, or read books, or listen to music, relax and go to bed as early as possible.
This writing pattern lasted for 35 years.
There are many people who have the same idea as Haruki Murakami, but most people have thought of it and failed to do it. Or thought of it, did it, and didn't insist.
More and more people talk about their ideas. Today they want to lose weight, tomorrow they want to practice writing, and the day after tomorrow they want to learn to write. They have thousands of ideas, but never do them. In the end, it can only be moved and perfunctory.
No one can wake a person who pretends to sleep. The prerequisite for a person to change himself is his inner desire for change, so as to trigger the key point.
I have a friend, Xiao Jing, who is very mobile and has gained an open-minded life.
After graduating from college, parents hope Xiao Jing will stay in her hometown and find a stable job. However, Xiao Jing knows exactly what kind of life she wants. She went to Japan to study design and developed a small interest. She likes photography, bought professional equipment and recorded everything around her with a camera. Because of her painting skills and unique ideas, her works were gradually liked by people, and later someone asked her to make an appointment.
Xiaojing will learn everything she wants to do in time. She studied flower arrangement and tea art and started a wedding company after returning to China. She planned a unique wedding with her special skills.
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Xiao Jing, who thought of doing it, got the life she wanted, and she became the envy of others. But there are some people around us who know exactly what they want and just don't take action.
My mother's colleague's daughter hasn't found a suitable job since graduation. She said that she wanted to find a stable and relaxed job, and the salary should not be too low. However, her college education has repeatedly rejected her. She daydreaming, unwilling to compromise, "lives on her laurels" at home.
In fact, all she has to do is keep working hard, whether it's study or work, step by step, and what she wants will come naturally.
I am most afraid of being a giant in thought and a dwarf in action. Want but refuse to work hard, only see the results of others and ignore the efforts behind the results.
Such a person deserves to live in envy.
In fact, fear of the unknown is human nature. The reason why we dare not challenge the unknown and are afraid of it is because we are lazy and afraid of failure.
I have seen such a sentence: Many times, why do we envy others' success? It is precisely because I know that it is not easy to do something, I am unwilling to do it, and then I am angry at my laziness and incompetence, so I can only balance it with jealousy and slander.
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In today's society, more and more people live in envy. Every time they see others succeed, there are always strange voices jumping out to slander them.
Some beautiful people will doubt plastic surgery, and when they find rich people, they will say the third best. Success achieved through hard work is usually regarded as luck. There are always people who can't see the goodness of others, but often these people who live in envy are actually the most sad.
They can only be brave in their mouths forever, but after happiness, they fall into incompetence. If you don't work hard, you can't be good to others For example, Mr. Jiang Yang said, "You don't read much, but you think too much."
When summing up that many people just have ideas but have no action, Ma Yun said: "Think of a thousand roads at night and get up tomorrow morning to take the original road."
He said: "To do one thing, experience is a kind of success. You go and have a rest. If not, you can turn around. However, if you don't do it, you will definitely not succeed. "
Successful people, such as Ma Yun, suffered a lot when he planned to be an Internet user, and was regarded as a fool by many people. But he dares to work hard, dare to try and never give up.
Before success, who was not looked down upon all the way? You just roll up your sleeves and work hard, turn those cold-eyed ridicule into motivation on the way forward, and exchange your success for the envy of people who once looked down on you.
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Do what comes to mind at once, and don't set too many restrictions on yourself. Many impassioned nights were lost to the waking traffic; Many well-planned dreams are frustrated by lack of action.
Book tickets first where you want to go, and calm down first what you want to do. In fact, you have thought of many things, but you just haven't done them. But I didn't do it, making everything equal to zero.
If you envy the beauty of others, you should control your appetite and learn to decorate yourself. If you envy other people's income, you should invest more in yourself and study hard. If you envy what others have, but you dare not try anything, then you only deserve envy. Dare to think and do, and your life will be more exciting.
The prerequisite for a person to become better is not to envy other people's lives. There is no exquisiteness to escape suffering, only tenacity to bite your teeth and not give up. Those who look up at the stars must first keep their feet on the ground and look up to see the Milky Way.
My favorite attitude towards life is to do it now, not to wait, not to rely on, not to be lazy.
I want to say goodbye to you.