1, the best man group
The best man is usually a good friend of the groom or a relative of the same age at home. Best man group is a must.
2. Immediate elders
There must be elders in the team to take care of relatives. This elder is usually the groom's immediate elder, such as uncle, uncle, etc. But his parents can't join the team to pick up the bride.
3. Relatives and friends of the same age
Besides groomsmen and elders, there can also be relatives of the same generation, such as cousins. Friends who are close to the groom can also join the bride-picking team, but it should be noted that the overall number must be even.
Pick up the bride (in a sedan chair) for the wedding.
Wedding, also called "wedding ceremony" and "marrying a wife", is equivalent to the "wedding ceremony" in the Six Rites. Usually, the groom goes to the bride's house to get married in person, but in some places in Xinzhou and Lvliang, there are also matchmakers or brother-in-law leading the wedding procession, and the groom is waiting at home.
The day before the wedding, the man gave a banquet to thank the media and distributed sweet soup to the neighborhood. At night, the groom sleeps with Lang Tou (also known as Lang, referring to unmarried teenagers). On the wedding day, "Look at mom's plate" took the lead. There must be a goose on mother's table. Goose was born in ancient times and formally proposed to the woman. Because the goose's spouse is single-minded about life, it symbolizes the firmness and harmony of marriage. Later generations replaced geese with geese.