Pay attention to one word in everything. In terms of kinship and consanguinity, the husband and brother are only in-laws, which are not reliable and not as close as expected. And in terms of marriage, your husband just formed a family with you, not with your family or your previous family. You two have combined to form a new family, which has nothing to do with the previous family, and so does your brother. Borrow a sentence from the Internet to describe: "It is a friendship for your husband to help your brother, and it is also his duty not to help. No one can force him to help, not even his wife. "
According to the provisions of the Civil Code, during the existence of your husband-wife relationship, your husband has the obligation to help you support your parents, and you also have the obligation to help your husband support your parents, but you have no obligation to help or take care of his brother-in-law or your brother. So from a legal point of view, it is normal for your husband not to help your brother-in-law, and it still involves money, or it is a free gift. This is all your husband's hard-earned money. I don't know about you, but I also want to give this money to my brother for free.
I saw this sentence on the internet the other day: "You are so rich, can't you give me some?" So the question is, do I have to send you flowers if I have money? In terms of income, it is rare to have a monthly salary of over 10,000 yuan, while a monthly salary of over 10,000 yuan proves that your husband is a very capable person. No matter what reason you marry him, you must remember that this is the money your husband bought with his life, but you ask your husband to give his life to help your brother-in-law. Are you going to spend your life with your brother or your husband?
There's a saying in China that emergency is not to save the poor. If his father-in-law or mother-in-law is ill, or his brother-in-law is ill, it is of course possible to take money to see a doctor, but it is not taken for granted. No one can say anything wrong with him unless he is treated with money. If you give money to your brother-in-law to buy a house and don't pay back the money later, then this is not a simple "help". Although there is in-laws relationship, my brother-in-law has a big boy with hands and feet, and his parents are still alive. Why should he pay for a house? Marriage requires a bride price, and it is even less qualified for her husband to help her brother-in-law.
Finally, I would like to advise you that you only have one younger brother, but you also have one husband. If the incident continues to ferment, your brother will still be your brother, but your husband may not be your husband. Finally, don't make yourself full of people inside and outside, let yourself live well. You must get some moths out.