Cui Zhe chose to join the army when he was a freshman. After two years of military career, she returned to school and formed the "Alliance of Demobilized Soldiers". The rehearsal program appeared on CCTV's "Gold 100 Seconds". In 20 19, she and Zhou Shuo met at a friend's wedding, and then started a long-distance relationship for one year.
Cui Zhe and his lover Zhou Shuo.
The two originally planned to hold a wedding on June 30, 65438 this year, but the groom could not return to his hometown because of the epidemic. According to local custom, the wedding can't be postponed after it's settled, so Cui Zhe decided to drive to her husband's house and finish a long-distance "cloud wedding" with her lover. After she posted the recorded "cloud wedding" video on the Internet, the background suddenly exploded, and thousands of "parents' netizens" came out to bless her.
"Someone asked me about my future plans. I think I have become attached to the army in my life. Next, I should go to Xinjiang with Zhou Shuo to support the western part of the motherland. "
The following is Cui Zhe's self-report:
Veteran female soldiers met their "iron hand" brother.
In 20 15, I was a senior three student in Hengshui. At that time, the state solemnly commemorated the 70th anniversary of the victory of the Chinese people's War of Resistance against Japanese Aggression and the world anti-fascist war. The school organized us to watch the military parade together. That scene touched me deeply. I think soldiers are very shy. They must feel very happy to be able to put on military uniforms and do their duty for the motherland for one day. From then on, I made up my mind to join the army.
After the college entrance examination, I was admitted to Harbin Normal University. Just after my freshman military training, I went back to my hometown of Hengshui, Hebei Province to join the army. At that time, my parents felt sorry for me, afraid that I couldn't bear this kind of suffering, and I thought it would help me in the future. But I think my nature is a person who doesn't take the usual road, so I want to give it a try and tell myself whether it is bitter or not with my own experience.
It turned out to be really bitter. But I also gained something that I couldn't get without being a soldier. This experience has taught me to cherish the time with my family and friends and to be grateful.
= Cui Zhe
After leaving the army, I began to study in Harbin Normal University. I found five college students from different arms in two colleges and called on them to form a "demobilized soldiers alliance" to write and direct the story of barracks life. I want to express my military feelings and call on college students to join the army. Later, we were honored to rehearse the program on CCTV's "Gold 100 Seconds".
In 20 19, Zhou Shuo and I met at a friend's wedding. He is not good at words, but he is connected with me. We have only known each other for more than ten days, and he bought me a tablet computer. I didn't actually ask for it, but he could observe and guess what I needed, so he gave me a surprise. At that time, I thought this "iron handyman" was ok.
After getting to know each other, I found that our personalities are complementary, and military life also made us find many similarities, so I chose to be with him. This year, he and I may only be able to video for a few minutes a day, at most ten minutes. But the most important thing is not what we talked about, but how we made each other feel.
"Flash Marriage" For love, she didn't get married alone.
Zhou Shuo was admitted to the National University of Defense Technology on 20 1 1 and went to the army after graduation. He is now stationed in Xinjiang border defense, 3500 kilometers away from me.
Last September, he came back from vacation in the army, and we got a marriage certificate. We take wedding photos together, book a wedding hotel, send invitations, find a makeup artist, and find a wedding company ... Some people may think that we are "flash marriages", but both of us think that the other is the right person. Do you have to break up when you are in love? So, so we really got married.
At that time, we fixed the wedding date at 65438+ this year1October 30th. I specially arranged for him to join the army for ten years when the Spring Festival approached, and never stayed at home with his parents for the New Year. I take this opportunity to keep him at home for a year.
This year, the epidemic in Hebei came suddenly. Our local custom is that as long as both parties set a wedding date, they can't change it. A little girl who doesn't want to have a wedding, but he is a soldier by profession, and I have been a soldier, so I completely understand him. So we retired all the wedding hotels and asked our relatives and friends not to come over.
Volunteers organized a "vanguard" to see Cui Zhe off.
My plan for this wedding is to drive to my in-laws' house by myself. Later, our volunteer organization "Pioneer" said that they were all my parents, and they didn't want me to get married alone, but they all wanted to give me a ride.
The "Vanguard Team" was organized and established by Hengshui Veterans Affairs Bureau, and invited our army veterans to participate in volunteer activities for epidemic prevention and control. Now "Vanguard" has 50 comrades-in-arms, and we have been doing disinfection for almost a month. 65438+ 10 On October 30th, they were doing disinfection work in Hengshui North Station, so I prepared a box of apples, wrapped them in paper, and sent them the word "Xi", each with a packet of melon seeds and peanut candy. On the same day, Comrade 16 was present to see me off.
Online wedding, there are thousands of "family members"
Netizens all coaxed the groom to reissue my wedding, but in my opinion, that day was my only wedding, which I planned with my heart. I didn't expect to reissue it later. I designed the bouquet myself, and my friend helped me install 23 flowers, which means I am 23 years old. An orange is cut in half, which means sincerity, half of me and my lover; Put a big apple and send it safely; In addition to these, two small dolls were inserted to represent the two of us. I designed every link of the wedding myself, but I had no choice but to cancel it.
Cui Zhe drinks tea for her in-laws.
On the morning of the wedding, he connected with me at the "cloud wedding", but he only video with me until after ten o'clock in the morning because he had something to go to work. Basically, he left after my family changed its name to "Mom and Dad". But very moved, the groom told my parents that he would definitely arrange my wedding.
My good friend was supposed to attend the wedding, but he couldn't come because of the epidemic. A good friend gave me a book written by himself, and the protagonist in the book was me. Several good friends personally broke 13 14 hearts and gave them to me. Although they were not present, I received these blessings.
I didn't expect the video to attract so much attention after it was sent online. Everyone replied at the bottom, "We are all your family." Some people questioned why I didn't postpone the wedding. I don't need to explain anymore. "My parents' net friend" helped me go back.
Many people send me blessings backstage. What moved me most was that some "parents' netizens" brushed all the six or seven hundred small videos I sent. Some people stayed up for almost a night and then sent me a long message. Others privately believe me that I am full of positive energy.
A mother saw my Father's Day blessing on Tik Tok, so she added me to WeChat and wanted to talk to me about educating her children. So I chatted with the mother, and it was good to give others some company. Later, I didn't expect that she asked a friend for a pair of calf dolls and wanted to give them to me as wedding gifts.
Some people ask me about my future plans. I think I have become attached to the army in my life, and then I should go to Xinjiang with Zhou Shuo to support the western part of the motherland.