Introduction of Yunnan minority customs
Marriage custom of Yi nationality
After the young man and woman met and fell in love, they were congenial and satisfied, so the man's parents asked Jiemo to choose an auspicious day, and after obtaining the consent of the woman's parents, they held a wedding for him. A few days before the wedding, girls should eat less and drink less, and they are not allowed to eat or drink before marriage. This custom of "the bride is hungry for water" mainly comes from the legend of the Yi people's "tiger wife", and it is also to avoid peeing on the way to marriage-which the Yi people think is unlucky.
On the wedding day, the man's family was beaming, and relatives and friends gathered together. A green shed was set up in the middle of the yard with branches. The shed was hung with red inside and outside, with Yi Xishen's memorial tablet in the middle. Yi singers keep singing with national feelings (Qingpeng tune), relatives and friends get together, singing and suona sound constantly.
When the family reunion team of the man's house comes to the woman's house, it is necessary to accept the brothers and sisters of the woman and the brothers and sisters of young men and women of the same age to splash water to show welcome and celebration. Yi people believe that if water is poured, the girl will not go far to fetch water when she arrives at her husband's house. Even if it is dry, she should eat and drink. After the wedding procession entered the woman's house, they kowtowed at the altar and then began to show their gifts, such as clothes, shoes, Baotou, coins and so on. The woman also showed the girl's dowry, such as cabinets, boxes, clothes, stools, bedding, color TV sets, sewing machines and so on. At this time, the singer invited by the woman's parents began to sing the wedding song, sing a paragraph and show a paragraph. What he sang must be shown, otherwise the singer will hit the wedding person on the head three times with a dustpan, which will cause everyone to burst into laughter.
After the exhibition, the woman's family entertained the married people to drink water: tea first, then sugar water, the so-called "bitter before sweet", then champagne, asking her uncle to say something auspicious, then opening the red box and tying two red ribbons to the groom. After everything is done, the woman's family fetes the married people, relatives and friends, and villagers in the village. During the dinner, the groom will bow at each table and then make a toast. After all the guests have finished eating, they can marry the bride and leave for home. If it is a long way, the woman's family will warmly welcome the married person to stay and leave the next day. That night, people danced with their left feet all night in the yard of the woman's house or in the square outside the house. If the road is near, you can get married and go home on the same day.
When people do the above activities, the bride usually dresses up upstairs and makes some preparations before marriage. Before leaving, the woman's uncle took the groom to say goodbye to the ancestral grave tablet of the woman's house, and the bride was carried upstairs by her brother or younger brother to the door of the hall and walked with the groom. The matchmaker greeted all the guests in the woman's house and saw her off. A young couple is the main team to send the bride, and the companions or younger relatives of the other girls can always send them to the man's house.
The custom of the Yi people is that no matter how far the road is, it is always on foot, not riding a horse or riding a sedan chair. In recent years, some people also ride cars and tractors. So, the procession carrying dazzling * * * and dazzling dowry set off for the man's house in the loud speakers and the cheerful music of suona. Along the way, people also played Qin Yue, sang folk songs and danced with their left feet, which was very lively.
The wedding team returned to the groom's house to set off firecrackers and firecrackers, and invited Bimo to enter the wedding ceremony. Then the bride, accompanied by a girl with two torches, walked into the gate and sat down on the bed in the bridal chamber. At this time, a middle-aged woman presided over the ceremony, and the bride and groom raised their glasses to propose a toast. Then the groom walked out of the bridal chamber, and the female guests of the woman's family stayed in the room with the groom. According to the traditional custom, the bride is not allowed to eat two meals a day at dinner. The mother who accompanied her warmed up the food brought by her and invited Sina to accompany her.
Then, the man's house hosted a banquet to entertain the guests. After that, they made a fire in the courtyard of the green hut, played black boy, sang songs and danced around the fire with their left feet at home. At this time, the bride and groom also joined the dance. Everyone forms a circle, sings and dances heartily, and often dances until dawn.
After dawn, the bride went to pick two buckets of water to the kitchen and lit a fire in the kitchen at the same time, indicating that the bride began to cook at the groom's house and lived in the groom's house from then on. On this day, the groom's family will also entertain guests, most of whom are native, and all the foreign guests have already left. On the third day, the bride will return to her family, commonly known as Huimen. It usually takes four or five days for the bride to return to her husband's house. In some places, she will go back to her parents' home for months or even years, depending on local customs.
The Yi people in northwest Yunnan and south Yunnan still have the custom of robbing marriage. The so-called wedding robbery. In fact, it is the will of both men and women, the consent of parents and the agreement of the matchmaker. Marriage robbery is just a form of marriage. In the northwest of Yunnan, Xiao sent the bride price to the woman's house, and at the same time wrapped the girl forcibly with felt. At this time, the woman's family can use fake beating to deal with the man who robbed the marriage, and put the blame on the face of the man who robbed the marriage. When the girl was taken back to the man's house, all the people who robbed him were dusty and dark, and often made the guests laugh. In southern Yunnan and other places, the place and time of wedding robbery are arranged in advance, and girls are often robbed on the way home to work in the underground, mow the grass by the village or carry firewood. The grabbed girl was taken directly to the man's house. According to the local Yi customs, women didn't realize that they were officially married until they arrived at the man's house, and they couldn't run any more. No matter what kind of bride-snatching method is adopted, the bride will be taken to the groom's house, and the wedding will be held in accordance with the local Yi customs to entertain guests. For stealing marriage. Yi people say that this is handed down from their ancestors, and the man's robbing is a kind of respect for the woman's family, indicating that the girl won't give it away because she can't get married. Nowadays, Yunnan people get married almost like me!
2. What are the etiquette and customs on the wedding day in Yunnan ~ Be more detailed ~ ~
Introduction of Yunnan minority customs
Marriage custom of Yi nationality
After the young man and woman met and fell in love, they were congenial and satisfied, so the man's parents asked Jiemo to choose an auspicious day, and after obtaining the consent of the woman's parents, they held a wedding for him. A few days before the wedding, girls should eat less and drink less, and they are not allowed to eat or drink before marriage. This custom of "the bride is hungry for water" mainly comes from the legend of the Yi people's "tiger wife", and it is also to avoid peeing on the way to marriage-which the Yi people think is unlucky.
On the wedding day, the man's family was beaming, and relatives and friends gathered together. A green shed was set up in the middle of the yard with branches. The shed was hung with red inside and outside, with Yi Xishen's memorial tablet in the middle. Yi singers keep singing with national feelings (Qingpeng tune), relatives and friends get together, singing and suona sound constantly.
When the family reunion team of the man's house comes to the woman's house, it is necessary to accept the brothers and sisters of the woman and the brothers and sisters of young men and women of the same age to splash water to show welcome and celebration. Yi people believe that if water is poured, the girl will not go far to fetch water when she arrives at her husband's house. Even if it is dry, she should eat and drink. After the wedding procession entered the woman's house, they kowtowed at the altar and then began to show their gifts, such as clothes, shoes, Baotou, coins and so on. The woman also showed the girl's dowry, such as cabinets, boxes, clothes, stools, bedding, color TV sets, sewing machines and so on. At this time, the singer invited by the woman's parents began to sing the wedding song, sing a paragraph and show a paragraph. What he sang must be shown, otherwise the singer will hit the wedding person on the head three times with a dustpan, which will cause everyone to burst into laughter.
After the exhibition, the woman's family entertained the married people to drink water: tea first, then sugar water, the so-called "bitter before sweet", then champagne, asking her uncle to say something auspicious, then opening the red box and tying two red ribbons to the groom. After everything is done, the woman's family fetes the married people, relatives and friends, and villagers in the village. During the dinner, the groom will bow at each table and then make a toast. After all the guests have finished eating, they can marry the bride and leave for home. If it is a long way, the woman's family will warmly welcome the married person to stay and leave the next day. That night, people danced with their left feet all night in the yard of the woman's house or in the square outside the house. If the road is near, you can get married and go home on the same day.
When people do the above activities, the bride usually dresses up upstairs and makes some preparations before marriage. Before leaving, the woman's uncle took the groom to say goodbye to the ancestral grave tablet of the woman's house, and the bride was carried upstairs by her brother or younger brother to the door of the hall and walked with the groom. The matchmaker greeted all the guests in the woman's house and saw her off. A young couple is the main team to send the bride, and the companions or younger relatives of the other girls can always send them to the man's house.
The custom of the Yi people is that no matter how far the road is, it is always on foot, not riding a horse or riding a sedan chair. In recent years, some people also ride cars and tractors. So, the procession carrying dazzling * * * and dazzling dowry set off for the man's house in the loud speakers and the cheerful music of suona. Along the way, people also played Qin Yue, sang folk songs and danced with their left feet, which was very lively.
The wedding team returned to the groom's house to set off firecrackers and firecrackers, and invited Bimo to enter the wedding ceremony. Then the bride, accompanied by a girl with two torches, walked into the gate and sat down on the bed in the bridal chamber. At this time, a middle-aged woman presided over the ceremony, and the bride and groom raised their glasses to propose a toast. Then the groom walked out of the bridal chamber, and the female guests of the woman's family stayed in the room with the groom. According to the traditional custom, the bride is not allowed to eat two meals a day at dinner. The mother who accompanied her warmed up the food brought by her and invited Sina to accompany her.
Then, the man's house hosted a banquet to entertain the guests. After that, they made a fire in the courtyard of the green hut, played black boy, sang songs and danced around the fire with their left feet at home. At this time, the bride and groom also joined the dance. Everyone forms a circle, sings and dances heartily, and often dances until dawn.
After dawn, the bride went to pick two buckets of water to the kitchen and lit a fire in the kitchen at the same time, indicating that the bride began to cook at the groom's house and lived in the groom's house from then on. On this day, the groom's family will also entertain guests, most of whom are native, and all the foreign guests have already left. On the third day, the bride will return to her family, commonly known as Huimen. It usually takes four or five days for the bride to return to her husband's house. In some places, she will go back to her parents' home for months or even years, depending on local customs.
The Yi people in northwest Yunnan and south Yunnan still have the custom of robbing marriage. The so-called wedding robbery. In fact, it is the will of both men and women, the consent of parents and the agreement of the matchmaker. Marriage robbery is just a form of marriage. In the northwest of Yunnan, Xiao sent the bride price to the woman's house, and at the same time wrapped the girl forcibly with felt. At this time, the woman's family can use fake beating to deal with the man who robbed the marriage, and put the blame on the face of the man who robbed the marriage. When the girl was taken back to the man's house, all the people who robbed him were dusty and dark, and often made the guests laugh. In southern Yunnan and other places, the place and time of wedding robbery are arranged in advance, and girls are often robbed on the way home to work in the underground, mow the grass by the village or carry firewood. The grabbed girl was taken directly to the man's house. According to the local Yi customs, women didn't realize that they were officially married until they arrived at the man's house, and they couldn't run any more. No matter what kind of bride-snatching method is adopted, the bride will be taken to the groom's house, and the wedding will be held in accordance with the local Yi customs to entertain guests. For stealing marriage. Yi people say that this is handed down from their ancestors, and the man's robbing is a kind of respect for the woman's family, indicating that the girl won't give it away because she can't get married.
3. How to get married in Yunnan?
If you want to get married, you should go to the convenience service center where either party's household registration is located (looking for the civil affairs window, there is usually an independent window), bring the household registration book (the household registration book of the person under the jurisdiction of the office you choose) and two ID cards (copies can be copied in the convenience office or brought by yourself).
After filling out the form, you can go there to take wedding photos after paying the money (there are photos in the general registration office, whether they are standard or uniform). Time is fast, and you can get a marriage certificate within 1 hour (if there are not many people).
Cost: 100 yuan is definitely enough. If you don't want premarital check-up, take photos with them (don't let them take photos, it's unnecessary, it's a waste of money, tell them that you only swear not to take photos). There is no need to learn anything in the process.
Congratulations, you're married.
4. Classic wedding greetings
A match made in heaven, heart to heart forever, heart to heart for a hundred years, romantic forever. Love is like oxygen, Yi Shi and IKEA grow old together for a hundred years, and the harp and harp grow old together for a hundred years. Fulu Yuanyang was lucky to have a happy marriage, and the talented woman was beautiful. The husband and wife sang the Pearl Wall and Feng Huang Yu Fei Happy Home together, and the piano and the instrument were in harmony, as if they were guests. Yang Bi and Wen Ding's auspicious marriage matched Bai Shou's lifelong alliance and formed a good marriage. Make a lifelong congratulations on the wedding. May all lovers be well, jack shall have Jill, and previous lives are doomed to a good marriage.
Happy wedding! A hundred years of harmony! You are made for each other. You are made for each other. Now that we are married, we need to tolerate and take care of each other in the future. Bless you! May you two entangle each other with love, be considerate and care for each other, and share joys and sorrows in the future. I wish a century of harmony and unity.
Cherish this love, just like cherishing it, and gently walk into this emotional hall to feel every wonderful moment. May you two entangle each other with love, be considerate and care for each other, and share joys and sorrows in the future.
I wish a century of harmony and unity. Two of a kind's highest state is relative discontent. I wish a couple a sincere love and a permanent wedding anniversary! Today is your wedding day. On behalf of my family, I congratulate you and wish you happiness and a long life together! A happy couple under the lamp, two love flowers in the bridal chamber, a golden house, a wedding gathering, and a candle in Lapras. Congratulations on entering the love hall.
I wish a hundred years of harmony! Love each other and be happy forever, and be happy wholeheartedly. May you two love each other more than the sea! I wish you love each other forever and have a wonderful life together.
The combination of true love is the purest of all combinations, bless you! May love fill your sweet life and make every day in the future as bright and happy as today! Finding her in the vast sea of people is clearly the fate of thousands of years ago. I wish you both happiness and harmony. Congratulations on finding your life-long soul mate. Marriage is a major event in life. I believe you will make the wisest decision. With the crystallization of love, you have a lovely baby. Don't forget to treat me to oil rice! The bridal chamber is full of flowers and candles, and the couple's love and love are affectionate! Reach out your loving hand, accept Yingying's blessing, let happiness bloom brilliantly and welcome your future days.
Happy wedding. Congratulations and best wishes.
Happy wedding and early birth! May you be United and happy forever! Happy wedding, sweet and sweet! Husband and wife love each other forever! Send heartfelt wishes to the breeze and let the clouds show sincere affection; The air is full of intoxicating sweetness. I hope my dearest friend, from now on, love will last forever! Bless you and laugh for you, because today, my heart is as happy as you! I wish you a long and happy life! Grow old! May you be United and happy forever! Happy wedding, sweet and sweet! Bless you and laugh for you, because today, my heart is as happy as you! I wish you a long and happy life! Grow old! A beautiful bride is like rose wine, and the groom is a wine glass.
That's it. Take your time, okay? Congratulations! Wine and cups are inseparable from now on! Bless you! Wine and glass, love, love! ! The smell of fusion. Congratulations! Send heartfelt wishes to the breeze and let the clouds show sincere affection; The air is full of intoxicating sweetness. I hope my dearest friend, from now on, love will last forever! Know each other and love each other, and love each other knows each other better.
People often say that the fairy couple is you! I wish you love each other every year and know each other every year! Love each other, be good partners, and have a beautiful marriage wholeheartedly. Candles and candles smiled at love birds, and the bridal chamber was beaming with plum blossoms.
In this spring day, you two will always be friends. As the saying goes, you are made for each other! I wish you both love each other and grow old together! Get married, have a baby early, Qi Mei's Yuanyang wing, Qingyang's yes word, you are a spectrum, and you are two harmonious songs. A match made in heaven makes husband and wife harmonious.
Know each other and love each other, and love each other knows each other better. People often say that the fairy couple is you! I wish you love each other every year and know each other every year.