To reach the peak of happiness in life, we need to grasp three keys to open the door of love, accept the love of ordinary fireworks, and don't expect the fairy tales of princes and princesses. Many girls have unrealistic demands on love, and want to change their life class through love or marriage, so as to achieve a counterattack and live a rich life. Just like the princess in the fairy tale, her fingers have not been touched by the spring water, and there are special people to eat and drink Lazar, and she needs the other half of the time to put sweet words on her lips. Never indulge yourself, expecting too much from love will lead to great disappointment. My friend didn't get married until he was 30. It is because of this mentality that he has a beautiful love and a perfect partner. Year after year, his face grew old day by day, and the happiness he wanted never came. Learn to accept that you are just an ordinary person.
Having an ordinary love is great happiness. With the person you love, no matter rich or poor, you can share your life and share joys and sorrows. You can accompany your partner to see the prosperity of the world and experience the suffering of the world. This is the best meaning of love. Everyone has edges and corners, and there is a natural stubbornness in his personality. People who have never been carved are not suitable for falling in love, whether with people with similar personalities or not. There is no way to fully understand each other. There are always two different views and two different ways to treat the same thing. The tolerance and forbearance that love should have can't be found in us. After falling in love for half a year, we finally broke up shamefully. If you want to love for a long time, you must learn to change, give up your selfish ideas, and learn to think from each other's perspective. ?
Don't always force the other party to pay, and don't wait until you pay to see the return. Learn to settle down in feelings, work hard, regardless of gains. When you are single, it is suitable for you to get along. When you are in love, you need two people to keep up with the pace, constantly cooperate and change to meet the conditions of love, and then boldly have the love you want. Not all love can have a happy ending. If two people have nothing to do, no matter how enthusiastic they are. In a relationship, you think you can meet beautiful things, but what you get is endless consumption; The passion of first love fades away, revealing increasing contradictions and differences, just like barren gravel after the tide recedes. The truth about your relationship is fragile.
Don't be nostalgic, it is always unpleasant with people. With it, you will feel insecure and even find yourself paying more and more attention to gain and loss. It's not necessarily that he doesn't love you, but that you are not suitable for each other and together. Love is like putting on clothes. If you wear clothes that don't suit you, you should give up bravely. If you put it on your body, it is not appropriate to be unhappy. It not only destroys your present mood, but also destroys it. It is better to leave bravely and let go than to immerse yourself in the wrong feelings. Only by saying goodbye to mistakes can we meet the right people and enjoy the beautiful scenery. We must learn to lend a helping hand and accept the truth of love. Change yourself and let yourself have the characteristics of love; Give up inappropriate feelings and leave the position to the right person. Love is hard-won, but it is within reach. Accept it, change it, and leave bravely, and you will eventually reap a simple and sweet emotional home.