People can't be resurrected when they are dead. It will be very sad if their grandfather dies, but the living should live well. I'm sure your dead grandfathers don't want their granddaughters to suffer because of themselves, so they will bless you in heaven. As for marriage, I personally think that as long as you are all ready to get married, you will soon become a family. Your father-in-law is a leader, and I believe he must have some ability to handle things. Don't hide it from your husband's family It's best to explain this matter to them clearly and then discuss how to solve it. If, as you said, for the sake of the in-laws' face, you get married before the funeral, then your family has also made sacrifices. I think a reasonable in-law will appreciate you and your family. It's not good to hide, which shows that you don't respect others and treat others as family. I wish you happiness, and I wish your late grandfather a pleasant journey! !