The bride price is tens of thousands.
Dantés Dailiang, a villager in Dudong Town, xintai city, just got married last month. He told reporters that the bride price of Xintai was only one or two thousand yuan five or six years ago, but it was quite good at 1 1800 three or four years ago. Recently, the bride price has soared to 3 1800, which means that the three families will send it together. But this is not necessarily, that is to say, depending on the family situation, the average middle-sized family has this number, and the slightly similar 2 1800 is increasing anyway.
Mr. Xu of Ningyang Porcelain Kiln 10 got married in June. According to the prior agreement, Mr. Xu gave his daughter-in-law 1000 1 yuan, which means one in a million. "One in a million is not very important, and most of Ningyang is this standard." Mr. Xu said that the salary is so high now, 1 0,000 yuan is also very easy to make up. This 1 000 yuan is mainly to repay the kindness of parents to their daughter-in-law.
Mr. Citizen Valley has been working in Dongping for 2 years. "Dongping's Hudong and Huxi are very different, which can be 50,000 to 60,000 yuan." Mr. Gu said that the bride price of nine towns on the east coast of Dongping Lake is generally 3 1.8 million yuan, but the bride price of five towns on the west coast of Dongping Lake is 88,000 yuan, 654.38+10,000 yuan and so on. "If the family is good, the bride price money will be returned to the young couple when the daughter gets married. If the family is not good, the woman's family will leave flowers. " Mr. Gu said.
Mr. Jiang works in a public institution in Feicheng. He got married in June 65438+ 10 last year. When engaged, the bride price is 10007 yuan, which means "choose a wife in ten thousand miles". "We are an ordinary family, but Feicheng is engaged, and the bride price is 2 1.900 yuan and 3 1.800 yuan." Mr. Jiang said.
Mr. Zhang from Taishan District said, "When I got married, the bride price was 1000 1 yuan, which means one in a million. I think it is good for both sides to discuss the bride price. After all, the couple live together, there is no need to care about these, and my mother-in-law is also good for me. When I accompany them, I will drive back. "
Mr. Zhao, who lives in Shankou Town, Daiyue District, just got engaged in June+10/October, 5438. When he got engaged, he was given a bride price of 2 1900 yuan, which means "two people live for a long time". "Marriage is a matter for two families. Originally, I wanted to give it to 10007, but later I wanted to get married. In order to save face, the bride price was raised to 2 1900 yuan. " Mr. Zhao said.
Parents "follow the crowd" and give it back to the young couple.
"There are many ways of bride price, such as giving money to the garage. There are many kinds of sayings about bride price. Generally, the two families discuss or talk directly in the woman's home. " Mr. Jiao of a wedding company in Taicheng said that in my impression, the bride price in 2006 was 6,600 yuan, then 8,800 yuan and 1000 1 yuan, and now it is 3 1800. "If the family conditions are good, you don't care about these. It's good that two children are happy together. Some women will come back with them. The worse the family conditions, the more attention is paid to these things. " Mr. Jiao said.
Liu Qiang, a citizen of Xintai, said that it is reasonable to say that the bride price money does not include jewelry money, but this is negotiable. If the woman's family wants 2 1800, the man's parents think that it is better to buy jewelry than to make money for their children to live, so they negotiate, so they give 3 1800, which includes the money for buying jewelry.
During the interview, it was found that the distribution and extraction methods of bride price were various. Yuan Yuan, who is about to get married in Taishan District, said: "Both families have agreed not to pay the bride price before marriage. The lucky money on the wedding day will be given to parents by their friends, and we young couples will take it ourselves. "
As for the bride price money, Ms. Wang, who has worked as a matchmaker for others four or five times, said that although she saw a lot of bride price money at that time, she usually paid it back twice when the young couple got married. When many couples get engaged, the bride price is 10007 yuan, but when the young couple get married, the woman gets married at10 million yuan. "Now many people are engaged to follow the crowd. If they want too little, it seems that their niece is worthless and they want too much. Maybe the woman's family doesn't want the man. " Ms. Wang said.