Where can I go to the wedding now without giving a red envelope? Giving gifts is not as affordable as giving red envelopes. Who knows if people like your gift, but the second one is unhappy. Don't say that courtesy is light and affection is heavy. Grow up and become a fairy tale. That kind of story happened on campus, when we were young. At present, the hotel table seats are so expensive, and with the investment in wedding dresses, it will be even more embarrassing if the price of the gifts you send can't reach the cost price of others' banquets. Although people don't say it, they will feel very uncomfortable. For example, when I get married, a table of banquet is 2000 yuan, and the per capita cost is 200 yuan, right? If a guest only gives a gift of 100 yuan, I'd rather he didn't come. I don't want to make money by getting married, but when such guests come, I lose one, and when I get married, I become poor and even more depressed.

Of course, if you don't go, find a good reason and remember not to invite others when you get married in the future, otherwise they will talk behind your back.

What I said sounds selfish, but it's the truth. Of course, you know your friend's personality and friendship better. Think for yourself.