As a photographer, I often come into contact with these topics. Now the list is as follows: (Please note that this is only my personal opinion)
1. The bride price ranges from 40,000 to 60,000 to 80,000. (Pay attention to safety and stability)
2. Book the wedding fee of 2000-4000 (it is best to ask the woman's opinion when the man's parents discuss with the woman's parents, otherwise you will regret it. It also includes an engagement ring-preferably a diamond ring. )
On the day of engagement, if parents want to exchange money for the woman, they should basically discuss some important details of the wedding day with each other.
4. The day before the wedding (the specific time is up to you), the man's family should prepare four-color gifts (basically, when engaged, cigarettes, wine, sugar and cakes are generally discussed. ) Give a gift to the woman's family, and the man's supervisor and the woman's supervisor talk about some details of the marriage. Including (opening the door, getting on the bus, getting off the bus, making a face for money, the bride's dowry list, the quality of gold and silver, and the bottom money), pay attention to the bottom money. Usually, the man has to double it. For example, if the woman presses 800, the man will press 1600. Of course, it can also be flat, that is, the woman presses 800 and the man also presses 800. The specific supervisors of both parties will discuss it.
The woman will prepare a suitcase to put money, gold and silver, dowry, clothes, etc. The above-mentioned items are put into a box and kept by a special person (usually brothers and sisters). )。 Back to the man's house, the person in charge will count the items in the box with the person in charge of the man's house, and then give him a red envelope (don't be stingy).
6. The man's supervisor should give the bride a red envelope (default, but don't be too stingy. Do you care about small money when you have more money? Hehe) The money mentioned above should be given to the manager by the bride's supervisor, that is, whoever gives the bride a face.
All of the above are to be discussed, but we should discuss them clearly so as to avoid trouble. . On the wedding day, it is mainly the supervisor who plays a role. The groom should hold his horses. After all, marriage is a good thing. Be careful that your shoes are robbed. I want your red envelope.
When you leave (after offering flowers), you will find that everything is gone (shoes, brooches, gloves, glasses, hijab), and then the supervisor will speak. If someone hides, give them a red envelope and ask them to take it out for you. Just be happy and give as much as others want. That's too cheap. Just buy a new one, hehe. ) and then put them on in turn according to the steps. Ready to go. . . Generally, it is the woman's brother's back (brother's back sister's generation). Of course, if there is no brother, the groom will carry it. (Yuci has different local customs. Sometimes you have to climb a mountain (with a chair on the bed and the bride sitting facing west). ) Sit in the chair and fan.
After coming out, the bride gets on the bus facing west (depending on whether the groom has these exquisite things), it goes without saying in the future.
All the above are my personal opinions. If there are similarities, we will be honored. I have to say how the two in-laws discussed it.
Don't do business unless you screw up your career (we call marriage a career here, hehehe)
Your arrangement is too detailed, and the wedding day will be chaotic. Ha ha laugh
At least 70,000-80,000 (conservatively speaking, don't take it seriously) as Zongshang said.
I spent 50,000-60,000 yuan to marry my wife (two years ago), and now the market price seems to have gone up again (brother, hurry up).
It's always been unarmed. . . . Sweat is dead. . . . It's 3: 40 in the morning.
I won't give you any points. Are you good enough for me? Well, that's interesting.
Just kidding. . For reference only.