When I was young, I didn't have much ambition: having a job and a small family was enough.
So, take the civil service exam, get married and have children.
The progress within the system seems beyond human power. Naturally, I lost the will to fight for it. Oh, maybe I never wanted to fight.
Because, we have a lot of things we think are meaningful to do. If we have enough time to read and write, or have the energy to draw and write to cultivate sentiment, it is also an attitude towards life.
Why let that brain cell intrigue but not get the chance of others' hidden rules?
It is said that single dog people don't even want to get married, because it is too difficult to buy a house, and it is more troublesome for otaku and otaku to live in harmony with others.
Too lazy to communicate with others, Ge You lies in his fart-bigger kennel, watching funny variety shows and dog blood TV series, brushing the web pages, ordering a takeaway when he is hungry, and sleeping in Ge You when he is sleepy, enjoying himself to the fullest, without social obstacles. This is a special attitude towards life.
As a middle-aged woman born in 1980s, let alone indifferent to fame and fortune, there is no word fame and fortune in her eyes. If my best friend pulls up in front of you in a Rolls Royce, they are indifferent and think that people will die. What's the difference between Rolls Royce and walking? So, nodding blankly, well, not bad.
In fact, it is because you know that the effort behind this Rolls Royce, whether it is your own efforts or others, the pain brought by commitment is far greater than the vanity itself brought by fame and fortune.
For this fame and fortune, staying up late, stress, torture, spitting, drinking wine is not worth it, far beyond your ability and physical support. Because after all, we didn't land in thousands or even tens of thousands of square meters of villas. After all, you have to use your life's fame and fortune to overdraw your life.
To put it simply, I can buy a dozen yuan of fried rice with tomatoes and eggs without blowing off dust, and I don't have to bear the warm house for mortgage rent. I can also integrate the ideas I learned from early education and various training centers for free, and I can also buy clothes for the whole family for one year at a treasure with my mobile phone. I will become the first batch of middle-aged Buddhist women after 1980s, and catch up with the trend of Buddhist youth.
After 60, my mother said, you should have the consciousness of personal obedience to the collective and dedication.
After 70, my brother said to put work first and family second.
The 80-year-old husband who bowed his head and played with his mobile phone was forced to look up and say, well, I have my inner order, so don't disturb my order.
In fact, his order is to insist on playing games in internet cafes every week, no matter whether it is windy or rainy.
As for me, I looked at the newly-built residential buildings outside the window, the rows of dazzling children's art training centers on the downstairs facade, and took a look at the international kindergarten where the community recently settled. Looking back, I saw the children happily playing with the light mud I bought at the stationery store for five yuan, holding all kinds of small animals and dolls, which were vivid and lifelike.
I also joined the ranks of kneading mud.
Because, compared with buildings built with foam, castles built with light clay are really real, and there is no smell of foam after drying.
They said that if they want to learn English as soon as possible, they need to sign up for a training class. So, since junior high school, our own English level is low, and we can't educate our children at all?
Wait, I saw a middle-aged man who tried to blend into the system, hunched his back and frowned and passed by the gate of the community. ...
Some people say that China has entered a low-desire society, and the representative just doesn't want to get married and have children. They don't want to, oh, no, they can't afford a house for the post-90s generation.
It's actually quite good.