According to Article 36 of the Marriage Law, the relationship between parents and children is not eliminated by the divorce of parents. After the divorce, the child is still the child of both parents, whether or not the parents directly raise him. After divorce, parents still have the right and obligation to raise and educate their children.

At the same time, if the two sides can't solve the problem of child custody through consultation, they can solve it through litigation. The court will make a judgment according to the principles that are beneficial to children such as living conditions and parenting ability. The following is the relevant basis:

1. Children under two years old usually live with their parents. Parents can live with their parents in any of the following circumstances:

(1) Suffering from infectious diseases or other serious diseases that cannot be cured for a long time, and it is not suitable for children to live with them;

(2) there are conditions for raising children, but parents require their children to live with them;

(3) For other reasons, children really cannot live with their parents.

Two, parents agree that children under the age of two live with their father, and there is no adverse impact on the healthy growth of children, can be allowed.

Three, for children over two years old, both parents require to live with them, and one of the following circumstances can be given priority:

(1) has been sterilized or lost fertility for other reasons;

(2) the children have lived for a long time, and changing the living environment is obviously not conducive to the healthy growth of their children;

(3) There are no other children, and the other party has other children;

(4) Children living with their children are conducive to their growth, while the other party suffers from infectious diseases or other serious diseases that cannot be cured for a long time, or there are other conditions that are not conducive to their physical and mental health and are not suitable for living with their children.

The conditions for parents to raise their children are basically the same. Both sides require children to live with their parents. However, if the children have lived alone with their grandparents for many years, and the grandparents require and have the ability to help the children take care of their grandchildren, they can be considered as a priority condition for the children to live with their parents.

Five, parents of a minor child over ten years of age and his father or mother's life dispute, should consider the views of the child.

6. If both parents agree to take turns to raise their children on the premise of protecting their interests, permission is feasible.