If your local parents meet for the first time. Pay attention to exchanging red envelopes with each other (that is, the man's parents give red envelopes to the future daughter-in-law; The woman's parents give red envelopes to her future uncle. This kind of "etiquette" exists in the area where you live, so do as the Romans do. Talk to your lover about how much you should pay, and both parties will probably do the same. If there is no such custom in your place, you can dispense with this "courtesy".

Usually, parents meet after a couple has been to each other's home and met each other's parents.

This process has basically recognized the child's choice. Through the parents' meeting, the children's lifelong events are formally decided. No other problems were found in principle. Old people from both sides will meet. There are also some meeting processes, that is, the old people of both sides discuss with each other and set a date for the two children to hold a wedding ceremony. And then deal with all the marriage matters separately.

According to the current words, it is the start-up procedure: which one does the wedding company invite?

Where can I book a banquet?

Where is the new house pressed, and so on.

I come from Hebei. When parents meet for the first time, there are often small partners who agree that their parents are in one place. A slightly better restaurant or teahouse; Old people on both sides let their children sit together and chat while drinking (tea).

In principle, this kind of meeting is for the man's family to "pay the bill".