When the auspicious moment comes, the bride is assisted by the groom and the woman (male left and female right) and walks out of the hall together (don't step on the threshold). The matchmaker is outside the door, holding a gossip rice screen (or a black umbrella) and covering the head of the bride and groom.
? The bride gets on the bus first and the groom gets on the bus through the other door. (male left and female right)
? The man tied the bamboo and sugarcane prepared by the woman to the roof of the limousine, and hung a piece of pork and a red envelope at the root.
? The woman gave the dowry items and gifts to the man and loaded them into the car.
The man arranged for the woman's dowry to get on the bus. (Every car needs people, even numbers are preferred. )
? When the lead car starts with a gun, the woman should also fire a gun to show good luck and avoid evil spirits.
? At the same time when the limousine starts, the bride throws a fan (a red envelope and handkerchief tied to the tail) from the window for her younger brother and sister to pick up, which is commonly called "letting go of her temper", or leaves the fan (kindness) to her parents, and feelings are inseparable. Brides should not look back.
? While the limousine is moving, the host of the bride pours wine behind the limousine or water (or rice) in the washbasin (or bowl) to show that there is water under the bridge, indicating that the bride should not have the idea of turning back (or regretting) or divorcing her wife.
? Press: According to the ancient ceremony, the leading car should shoot at intersections and bridge heads to exorcise evil spirits. Today we can simply cooperate with environmental protection.
? Reference: Some customs just don't want to go back because the departure and return directions are different or the roads are different.
? The groom should have finished the wedding, but before the opening ceremony, he drove to the woman's house to deliver the 12-page post and invited her to officiate. Sometimes it's a long way or time is short, so after a while in the garage, the groom and the matchmaker get off the bus together, go back to the woman's house and send the 12-page post to the woman's wedding party, and arrange another car to send it.
? When the motorcade is about to arrive at the man's home, the leading car should fire a gun to inform.
? The man welcomed him with a pike, and the motorcade entered in turn.
? This man, a boy, is holding a red lacquer wedding tray with two big oranges in it. He came to the bride's limousine, opened the door and asked the bride to get off, commonly known as sedan chair. The bride will touch the orange, switch places, and then put a red envelope under the orange, and the boy will come back.
? The groom and the matchmaker get off the bus first, the matchmaker prepares gossip rice screen (or black umbrella) and lead powder, and the groom goes to the bride's door.
? The man invited a blessed woman to help the bride and groom get off the bus together, and the matchmaker lifted a rice screen over the head of the bride and groom and entered the gate together.
? When they came to the gate, the matchmaker put down the rice screen and walked into the gate, sprinkling lead powder and saying, "Before people arrive, enter the hall first to gain popularity." In front of the threshold of the hall, put a brazier (oven, burning charcoal inside) and tiles (or use sandalwood and jasmine grass). When the fire is strong, the bride will cross the stove with her right foot and then step on the tiles, which is commonly known as excessive fire.
? The man invited the woman's dowry staff to sit at the door.
2. Where do newcomers get on and off?
"Fetal God" is a god who specializes in studying fetuses. It generally exists around pregnant women. People respect and fear the fetal god. Because the fetal god has the dual nature of blessing and hurting the fetus. When the fetal god is beneficial to the fetus, people naturally respect it; When the fetal god is harmful to the fetus, people are afraid of it. At this time, people don't call it a fetal god, but a fetal evil spirit. God is respectable, but he must not commit it. According to folk belief, the harm of fetal god to fetus is due to human's violation of fetal god, that is, fetal evil spirit. It is said that the fetal god can communicate with the fetal soul. Fetal gods appear regularly around pregnant women, in some fixed positions, or attached to specific objects at specific times. People must not offend or hurt it, otherwise, it will hurt the fetus, which will seriously lead to abdominal pain in pregnant women or fetal damage.
The outside of the bed faces due south! If you are from the south, you must go to the north.