In ancient times, engagement was the date of engagement. Once the engagement is confirmed, it cannot be changed. The present engagement ceremony is not only the significance of concluding an engagement, but also the understanding and discussion of marriage between relatives and friends of both sides.
What an engaged man needs to prepare.
1, engagement fee
Engagement fees can be divided into big engagement and small engagement, and the amount depends on the economic conditions and regional customs of both parties. But no matter how much the engagement money is, it is usually an auspicious number, such as 1000 1, 66666, 88888, 99999, 10000, etc.
2. gifts
Bridal price refers to the gift that the man brings to the woman's house to show sincerity when engaged. The number and types of bride price are different in different regions. Common betrothal gifts are six, eight or twelve. Gifts are mostly cigarettes, wine, tea, sweets, fruits, various meats and so on. The man can choose according to local customs and traditions, and pay attention to choosing even numbers, which means pairs.
3. Wedding jewelry
On the day of engagement, my mother-in-law will also send a gift to her future daughter-in-law. Modern engagement jewelry is not too particular, and it is generally chosen according to the preferences of new people, generally rings, necklaces, bracelets, earrings and so on.
4. Matchmaker ceremony
If men and women are introduced by a matchmaker, then a matchmaker ceremony should also be prepared. The matchmaker's gift is usually a red envelope. Thanks to the introduction of the matchmaker, let them get to know each other and will work together for life. As for the amount, it can be agreed with the woman, just a little more than the amount of the woman.
5. Banquet ceremony
The engagement party is usually hosted by the woman's house. The man offered to calculate the approximate price of the banquet hosted by the woman's family, and then discounted the red envelope to the woman's family.