Marriage is a traditional custom, and it is still considered as a necessary celebration in some places and families. However, marital quarrels may affect newlyweds and people around them, and sometimes cause unnecessary troubles. Here are some possible ways to reduce marital conflicts:

1. communicate in advance: newcomers can communicate with family and friends in advance to express their thoughts and expectations in order to reach an agreement. You can tell them what they don't like or can't accept, so that everyone can respect the new couple more when celebrating.

2. Routine procedure: In wedding planning, you can specify the time, place and content for the wedding, so that all participants can know when and where the wedding can be held and what the content should be. This will help to avoid the overtime and beyond the scope of marriage, and also avoid misunderstandings and disputes caused by uncertain content.

3. Team standardization: wedding planning can set up a team leader and a standardized team to ensure the safety, order and civilization of the wedding. The captain should be able to control the rhythm and content of the wedding and be responsible for ensuring the safety and dignity of the couple and other participants.

4. Advocate civilized celebration: advocate the concept of civilized wedding, advocate civilized marriage, and reduce unnecessary contradictions and conflicts. Participants can be encouraged not to disturb the surrounding residents, not to occupy roads and public places, not to interfere with traffic, and to avoid using harsh instruments and words.

Generally speaking, in order to reduce marital troubles, it is necessary to communicate and plan well in advance, respect the wishes and dignity of the couple and other participants, publicize the concept of civilized wedding, and make the wedding more harmonious and beautiful.