Marriage needs the care of both sides, and this foundation is respect, tolerance and trust. Everyone needs respect, even the closest partner-husband and wife, and this respect must be based on both sides. Any unilateral respect or one-way respect will not last long and will bring dissatisfaction to the other party. Over time, there will inevitably be barriers. As long as people have shortcomings, there will be mistakes, and mistakes are only big and small. Therefore, husband and wife should learn to tolerate each other's mistakes. Anyone who comes to this world for the first time, no matter how old, will face temptation and make mistakes, so tolerating each other is tantamount to tolerating their own choices.
Mutual trust is an important part of a couple's love life. Living in a suspicious environment for a long time will make everyone very tired and feel very tired. Suspicion will not only cause the estrangement between two people, but also be an important promoter of family division. The story of suspecting a neighbor stealing an axe tells us that once there is suspicion, no matter what the other party does or says, it will feel wrong, which will be very similar to his own suspicion, so a marriage without trust will not last at all.
The first anniversary is called paper marriage; The second anniversary is called cloth wedding; The third anniversary is called sheep cloth marriage; The fourth anniversary is called diaosi marriage; The fifth anniversary is called wooden marriage; The sixth anniversary is called iron marriage; The seventh anniversary is called bronze wedding; The eighth anniversary is called electric marriage; The ninth anniversary is called Tao wedding; The tenth anniversary is called tin wedding; The eleventh anniversary is called steel marriage; The twelfth anniversary is called hemp marriage; The thirteenth anniversary is called lace wedding; The fourteenth anniversary is called ivory marriage; The fifteenth anniversary is called crystal wedding; The twentieth anniversary is called porcelain wedding; The twenty-fifth anniversary is called silver wedding; The 30th anniversary is called pearl wedding; The thirty-fifth anniversary is called coral wedding; The 40th anniversary is called ruby wedding; The forty-fifth anniversary is called sapphire wedding; The fiftieth anniversary is called the golden wedding; The 55th anniversary is called Jade Wedding; The sixtieth or seventy-fifth anniversary is called diamond wedding; The seventieth anniversary is called the golden wedding.