Husband and wife have lived together for many years; Birth, old age, illness and death, one person always dies first, and the other person goes to the cemetery to burn paper to express his mourning and nostalgia for the deceased. You can go now! However, according to the traditional old stress, the surviving spouse does not go to the cemetery on the day of funeral; Legend has it that I am afraid of being taken away! From now on, the ancients decided to pay attention to this because they were afraid that the relationship between husband and wife was too good and the other party was too sad to see the scene of burial, which would affect the burial. This is reasonable. Of course, if you want to go, you'd better be accompanied by your family.