In some places, there is such a taboo in marriage, saying that it is a son at home. It will be unlucky for the younger to get married before the older, and it may not last long. Even if they survive, the children born in the future may have various problems. Severe cases will be extinct in the third generation. If it is a daughter, it will be different, because she is married, so she is not a member of the family, so there is nothing unlucky or taboo.
Of course, these statements are feudal superstitions and have no reference value. We should believe in science and that happiness is created and maintained by ourselves.
Second, the influence of young people getting married first on the elderly:
About marriage, there is a saying in some places: the young get married first, which will overwhelm the old. It is customary for the second child to get married, but the boss wants a wall. It is said that the younger one gets married first, which leads to great failure, and the younger one will also have various disadvantages.
Again, these statements are still old feudal superstitions and have no credibility or reference value.
Third, who is not good for brother and sister to get married for one year?
Getting married for a year is not good for anyone-nor for yourself. According to the traditional concept, a family holds two weddings and two happy events a year, which is called "Xi Chong Xi". It means a happy event is a happy event. If there are two happy events, one will wash away the other. Therefore, getting married for a year is not good for anyone, my sister or my brother. No matter who gets married first, it's all a family anyway, and it's not good for anyone in case of an accident. Therefore, in order to avoid unlucky things, it is best to stagger the wedding years between brothers and sisters.
Getting married for a year is not good for anyone-it is not good for relatives and friends. Although there is a saying that you are happy, there is also a saying that good things happen again and again. But the good things here are not necessarily good for the guests, because marriage needs money and gifts. The same family holds a happy event once a year, and money is not a problem. However, if the wedding ceremony is held for two years in a row, the guests will feel bored, and even if they come, they may not be willing. Such a friend will naturally have less sincerity in blessing the couple. In particular, there are many gifts, and the first wedding gift is as many as the second. It is really unbearable for ordinary families to encounter a large amount of money. From this perspective, it is not appropriate for brother and sister to get married in the same year.
Getting married in one year is not good for anyone-if all brothers and sisters are of marriageable age and have to choose to get married in the same year, who will get married first? Generally, the elder sister gets married first, and the younger brother gets married again. In fact, this arrangement follows two principles, one is that the young and the old are orderly, and the other is to get married first and then get married. If it is a brother-sister combination, the younger sister gets married first, and the older brother gets married later.
It's not good for a brother and sister to get married for a year-they don't pay attention to it. Because modern people's concept of marriage customs has changed a lot, the past thoughts have not adapted to the modern form. Many times, modern people get married together. On festivals such as 52 1, Qixi, Valentine's Day, more people get married together, even in groups. In this case, even brothers and sisters can have a wedding together and get married together.