Other people's weddings have become their own nightmares, which is how Xiao Xie, the bridesmaid, feels. As an unmarried girl, she was robbed by several male guests, and the guests around her were just immersed in this "happy" atmosphere, and no one noticed her tears. It was not until she took a taxi to the police station that "Brother" said, "Your girl is really courageous. Do outsiders dare to come to Yanliang as bridesmaids? " Only then did I know that her experience was not a case.
The male guests took the opportunity to tease the bridesmaids.
65438+1October 26th is a festive day. On the evening of 25th, Xiao Xie, as a bridesmaid, rushed from Xi to a hotel in Yanliang, where her friend Oda will hold a wedding. "She told me that there might be some jokes the next day, so I don't want to be a bad face." Xiao Xie, who is a bridesmaid for the third time, didn't expect that this situation could not be handled.
On the morning of 26th, the word "humiliation" flashed in Xiao Xie's mind for several hours from 9: 00 a.m to the wedding reception. "Knocking on the door" and "looking for shoes", several male guests teased Xiao Xie at every link. After the first door was knocked down, the male guest who came in confirmed that the bridesmaid was Xiao Xie and rushed over to ask her, "Did you just ask for a red envelope?" Her nightmare began. "Four or five people hugged me and groped for a red envelope on me. Also lifted me up and threw me on the ground. "
Fortunately, there was a carpet on the hotel floor, which didn't cause much harm. The bride ODA was in the bedroom behind the second door. "They forced me to help call the door again, or they would touch me." The second door opened, and four or five male guests grabbed Xiao Xie and put her on the bride's bed, refusing to let go. "I can't get up. I played too hard and my neck was sprained. "
The mouth on the wall was dyed red with blood.
It's finally time to find shoes. Xiao Xie didn't expect that the target of several male guests was her. "They insisted that the shoes were mine." They threw themselves into the sofa to find Xiao Xie. That's not all. While the bride and groom are meeting their parents in another room, these people put their little thanks on the wall, clamoring for red envelopes and doing all kinds of obscene actions. Xiao Xie was really fed up. He took out a red envelope and scattered it on the ground before he got away. Only then did I find that my mouth was stained with blood on the wall.
Yesterday morning, recalling this terrible experience, Xiao Xie, who was physically and mentally hurt, couldn't go on for several times. "I wanted to call the police at the time, but this is a wedding." But these male guests didn't let Xiao Xie go because of her kindness. In the next link, these people began to drag Xiao Xie, forcing her to kiss the best man. "I have already pulled my face down, and they don't care."
In Yanliang, the best man and bridesmaid are hard to find.
After the wedding, angry Xiao Xie walked into the Lingyun Road Police Station of Yanliang Branch of Xi Public Security Bureau to report the case.
On the way to the police station, "Brother" said, "Your girl is really brave. Do outsiders dare to come to Yanliang as bridesmaids? " She finally realized that Yan Liang's wedding had such a "bad name". When mediating at the police station, the groom's words even made Xiao Xie dumbfounded. "It's quite light for you. When attending the wedding in summer, the white clothes on the bridesmaids' chests were blackened. "
Yesterday morning, the groom admitted that "Yan Liang's best man and bridesmaid are hard to find." Everyone made a lot of noise at the wedding. "He said he didn't want such an unpleasant situation, but when Yan Liang held a wedding, he often played like this. The so-called "no play, no happiness" sometimes cannot control the situation. In this regard, Xiao Xie is not willing to submit to humiliation. She hopes to get back justice, and hopes that other girls will not have such an experience at Yan Liang's wedding.
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expert opinion/advice
Wedding bad habits must be eliminated.
Fu, a professor at Shaanxi Normal University and chairman of Shaanxi Folk Writers and Artists Association, said that in China's wedding custom, there was a ceremony of "disturbing the bridal chamber", which was practical from the very beginning. In China's long farming society, people generally get married earlier, so boys and girls of this age know almost nothing about sex. It is precisely because of this that mothers have the custom of preparing "wardrobes" for their married daughters. In the groom's house, arranging a group of married relatives and friends to have a wedding night and give the couple a "class" can be regarded as sexual enlightenment to young men and women. "Even if it is a wedding, it is after the wedding. Weddings are sacred and solemn, and Chinese weddings are still the embodiment of family and China culture. " Fu Shuo: At Chinese weddings, parents and leaders speak and read out certificates, which is the commitment of both husband and wife to their respective responsibilities. With the development of society, the link of making trouble in the bridal chamber after the wedding has gradually weakened. I don't know when it evolved, but teasing the best man and bridesmaid with vulgar content at a sacred wedding is a destruction of the happy and peaceful atmosphere of the wedding. This bad habit must be broken.