Feelings take time to develop, and two people must be together for a long time to truly understand a person's personality and temper.

In this world, there are no perfect people. The person you were with may end up with bad habits. Of course, these bad habits are not just because I am with you, but have already existed. At the beginning, everyone showed the good side to each other first, and even deliberately concealed the shortcomings, but after a long time, when two people really understood it, they would not hide it.

Therefore, time is a sharp weapon to test love. When the person in front of you takes off his disguise, do you still love the original imperfect person who is still alive? But at the same time, time is also the poison of love.

Can you believe it? Sometimes, some people have been together for so long that their love has been integrated into the dribs and drabs of life. I thought love should be more indestructible, but I didn't expect it to be completely ignored because it was too ordinary.

Lin Zi said that if possible, she would like to go back to the day when she first met him and ask him, if the people in front of him can't be together in the end, will he still insist on love at first sight?

If life can always be like the first time, then everything can be fixed, but if, it can only be a hypothesis forever. Woods doesn't know the result, and he doesn't know what answer he will give.

Lin Zi has seen so much love coming and going around her, some separated, some continued to be together, some came and dispersed halfway, and some came menacingly but ended in gloom. What remains unchanged is that Lin Zi stayed with him all the time, walked through everyone's disappointments, and finally turned a suspected love into an example for many friends around him.

02

It's just that God loves to joke. He is good at making a sudden turning point in all seemingly peaceful endings and continuing to write stories, which makes people unprepared.

Just like when breaking up, Lin Zi's first reaction was whether he heard it wrong. She doesn't believe that he proposed the breakup. He used to love himself so much. How can he say he doesn't love?

She cried for a long time, but she couldn't even say a cruel word. Finally, she came to the conclusion that he was a liar.

However, she doesn't understand why he can cheat her for six years if he is really a liar. Why didn't Lin Zi realize that she was immersed in love for six years and finally played the role of moth to the fire?

The year Lin Zi met him, he was 24. He graduated from college for a year. He is three years younger than Lin Zi. At that time, he was still in college. During the summer vacation, he came to Linzi's company for an internship. Because high school is a school, he has always been politely called Sister Lin Zi.

Lin Zi is also very happy to have such a sensible and obedient schoolmate, so he takes care of him in many things at work. She didn't think too much at first, because before meeting him, Lin Zi always claimed that she liked Uncle Qian, and her future boyfriend should be at least three years older than her.

Someone asked her why, and she said that she was mature and felt that she should speak more languages with older boys with social experience. So at first, she felt that this junior seemed to be interested in herself, so she joked with him: "Senior doesn't like junior."

He wasn't annoyed, and he didn't even avoid the topic. Instead, he raised his face and asked, "Is it hopeless for me to pursue my senior?"

She suddenly smiled: "Stop chasing."

So, one day after half a year, when Lin Zi was with him, it suddenly occurred to me: When did this boy, who is three years younger than himself, ever move himself?

She couldn't tell which moment it was, but when she remembered it, she felt that there were countless moments when he could make her move. He is a cautious boy. Although smaller than the Woods, he reminds and takes care of the Woods in many things in daily life.

When Linzi told people around her that she was in love, all her friends thought she was crazy. Some even bet that they will break up after a while, because it is really unrealistic, not to mention three years old, just got a job and one is still studying. This gap is enough to kill their love.

03

Originally, Lin Zi didn't have much hope, but I talked to him anyway, because he made Lin Zi feel the taste of love.

Before meeting him, Lin Zi had a love affair. She loves each other more, and often tears down her face. There is no doubt that when we broke up, she was covered with scars.

But unlike him, he loves Lin Zi enough to do what her imaginary boyfriend does for his girlfriend. His love is warm and sincere, without any disguise, and it is the feeling of first love.

He once said that they would get married after graduation.

Because being together is so beautiful, Lin Zi slowly imagines the future. About the future of two people, although they are not married after graduating from college.

He said that he felt that he had nothing now, so he wanted to wait until he got better, because he didn't want her to suffer in the future.

Although Lin Zi is a little worried about getting older, on the other hand, she feels that she has matured a lot, so she is willing to support his decision and wait for him for another two years.

Later, Lin Zi said that she found an inherent law: those who didn't want their girlfriends to suffer with them and wanted to wait until they got better before coming back to marry Qing ended up breaking up.

In fact, love can't stand waiting, because there are too many variables, which often make people unprepared.

But the Woods were not in the mood to think so much. What she wants is to become better, so that she can be worthy of his continuous progress. So she tried to keep herself moving forward.

However, she doesn't know where his goal is. At first, he will mention the plan to marry Lin Zi, and then he will say nothing.

The Woods asked him when they would get married, and he replied ambiguously, "Let's see, soon."

Lin Zi's family are urging her. They didn't like this love at first. Later, I saw that after talking for so many years, they all compromised, until they finally became a thorough marriage.

The Woods are urging him, too, but he doesn't dare to push too hard. On the one hand, he doesn't want to appear too fall in price. On the other hand, he is also worried that his eagerness will lead their love to a dead end.

Their love ran for six years. At the age of thirty, the Woods urged him again and said that he couldn't wait, so he broke up.

04

Although he also has a lot of guilt, he keeps saying sorry, but what's the use of being sorry? What the Woods want is not to be sorry, but to be together.

Unfortunately, he once met so many requirements of the Woods, but this time he can no longer meet them. He refused to say the specific reason for breaking up, only that he felt it was inappropriate.

The Woods asked him if he still loved himself? He is silent, love or love. Lin Zi was anxious: "Have you never liked me?" He explained, "No."

Like and love are the most elusive things in the world. In retrospect, Lin Zi still doesn't know where the love between the two started to go wrong.

Maybe it's a long time, she loves him more than he loves himself, or she is urging her to get married again and again, or she has been together for a long time. He thought that the future marriage was nothing more than this, and there was no expectation, so he decided to leave.

Is there a sign? In fact, there is, but when his love is decreasing, Lin Zi pays more love to make up for what he lacks. She thought that this would prove the perfection of love, but in the end she deceived herself.

The 30-year-old Lin Zi is single again, and a thousand words can only become one sentence: "If a man has been in love with you for more than three years, but doesn't mention marrying you, then you should be careful." After thinking about it, I suggest: "Don't be in love for more than three years, get married first."

She used three years as the deadline, because from then on, she felt anxious: why did he still refuse to marry himself after they knew each other so well?

It is easy to change, and it is also easy to change.