The cost of marrying a rural daughter-in-law
The cost of building a new three-story building on his homestead is about 350 thousand, and the man will bear it all. The bride price is about 80 thousand, of which the bride price wine is about 1 10 thousand, and the rest 70 thousand women return it in the form of dowry. The bride price is about 6.5438 million yuan, and every penny should be brought back to the man's house when the woman gets married.
1. Couples who are married in the form of blind date in rural areas now, if the man's house does not have a new three-story building, no woman is willing to marry. This is the first choice for rural women to get married at present, and rural men who can't meet the requirements just have a bachelor's degree.
2. Bride price is a traditional model in rural areas, and it is also a direct subsidy for the man as the dowry of the woman. When a rich family marries a daughter, the dowry will be much more than the bride price given by the man. If there is no money at home, at least a dowry of not less than the bride price will be given. In fact, when the man gives the woman money to help him get married, the dowry equipment will be sent to the man's house at the same time.
3. The wedding gift100000 or so, mainly to verify that the man has no family around and eats the poor family who has never been to the next meal. So he must take out real money to prove that the woman will not worry about her livelihood after she marries her own family. The money is mainly for her family to see. When she gets married, the money will be brought back to the man's house with the dowry red envelope.
Summary: The above expenses are unilaterally paid by the husband's family, and most rich women are looking for suitable objects. The money is only reflected in the generous dowry, that's all. (Of course, there are also some girls who go out to work and bring the N million yuan they have saved for N years to the man's house. Some of these girls, and most of them are women who have never saved money, only have individuals when they get married. A wedding banquet is similar to a gift, and a few people will have a slight surplus.
To sum up, to marry a country girl in the countryside, you have to marry an ordinary village girl, at least 500 thousand. If you don't have that much, you need to borrow money to complete these steps (making bride price+wedding gift), otherwise you won't be able to marry a daughter-in-law in the countryside. Many rural families get married by borrowing money. After marriage, the couple and the man's parents will pay back the money in several years.
Marry a wife from a fourth-tier city in the mainland
As long as you have a set of children in this city, almost all marriages in this city are cooperative and combined. Generally, the man pays, the woman pays for the household appliances, and then the bride price is dispensable. The wedding banquet is shared by both parties, and there is no need for wedding gifts when getting married. The average price of fourth-tier cities is about 5,000 yuan. According to the calculation of 100 square meter, one set is only 500,000 yuan, and three talents are 1.5 million yuan. Wedding banquet and gift money are almost equal, and a few people have a slight surplus. The average wedding photo taken by ordinary people in the city is about 5,000 yuan, so please invite a wedding, of which 30,000 yuan spent on the wedding is mostly shared by both parties.
To sum up, a city man can marry an ordinary wife in a third-and fourth-tier city as long as he has 200,000 yuan (1.5 million, 50,000 is enough for the wedding expenses, and the wedding expenses are almost the same as the gift money). In the future, the repayment of loans will be shared by both parties, which is the model and model for men and women to get married in most third-and fourth-tier cities.
Inland underdeveloped provincial capital cities.
The cost of marrying a wife is only a little higher than the price. Other wedding expenses are similar to wedding expenses. The price of home appliances can only be cheaper, but never more expensive. So men in big cities just have a higher cost of living than people in remote areas, that's all. Based on the average10.2 million yuan of capital cities in underdeveloped areas in the mainland, it is also 360,000 yuan according to the percentage of 300 square meters. Other wedding expenses are the same as those of the third-and fourth-tier models. Almost 400,000 yuan can easily marry an ordinary wife in a provincial capital city in the Mainland.
And I like men in the first-tier cities of Beijing, Guangzhou and Shenzhen.
The cost of marrying a wife is only higher than the price, and other prices are almost the same. At present, the average price of goods in first-tier cities is about 30 thousand, which is 900 thousand. Other wedding expenses are the same as above. That is to say, in the first-tier cities of China, if you have 950,000 yuan, you can marry an ordinary girl and get married for life.
In China, no matter in which city or region, except the price difference, other living costs are equally high, because most people live at home, not climbing the rich, so it is naturally impossible to compare with the most expensive. The prices of rice, oil, electricity, coal, gas, water, meat, eggs and other ordinary necessities are similar. I have been to all the first-tier cities in China, and I have been to more than half of China. I feel that there is no difference in the cost of living except the price difference (the price difference will affect the accommodation cost, generally the accommodation cost in expensive cities will be high, and the accommodation price in low cities will be cheap), and there is no difference in other things, which is the same in China. Here, whether you are in the first-line north, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, or in a remote county, there is almost no difference between the prices of food and clothing stores. Relatively speaking, except for the housing price difference, most other commodities in big cities are cheaper than those in remote areas. When it is worse than the price, please remember to compare the same quality with the price, and the same price with the quality. This is not the most expensive and expensive problem, but the cost of living of ordinary people. In big cities, except life is a little more expensive, other expenses such as food, clothing, housing, transportation and epidemiology are not only cheaper than those in third-and fourth-tier cities, but also more convenient. )
Actually, I want to say something from the heart. Rural girls are demanding. Really, those low requirements are that they get pregnant when they work outside when they are girls, or some children are born and have to combine. Many of them are not accepted and recognized by the woman's parents. Later, it was because there was no way to make do with the reality of having a child, because there was no way for the child to be pregnant or born. Some of them are girls who have grown up and made a fool of themselves, and they can't do without handsome boyfriends. Young people don't know what material things are, so they have to combine with Gao Shuai's considerate boyfriend.
Relatively speaking, the daughters of ordinary people in third-and fourth-tier cities have the lowest requirements. However, except nominally above average or below average, these are all concentration camps for leftover women in the future. These two parts are almost all high-minded and low-minded, but their abilities are average, but they declare that they only marry men and women who have cars, or they only look for gentle and considerate brothers with Gao Shuai Thought. People like this, not men who account for at least two of Gao Shuai's richest people really can't beat them. These two parts of women are naturally the protagonists who are eventually eliminated by society and become veritable leftover women in the future.
Afraid of some unreasonable people coming out to refute, I'll give you Baidu Encyclopedia first:
A netizen said: Some ordinary men in rural areas only need a bride price of 50,000 yuan, so what I want to ask is how much it costs for ordinary men in cities to find a wife. Let me tell you, it's just below 30,000 yuan. There is no bride price for city people to marry their wives. No matter whether he marries a rural woman or an urban woman, he will not give her a bride price. At most, he will give her a piece of jewelry. The rich and expensive are about 10 thousand, and the other expenses are about 10 thousand Take wedding photos, please take wedding photos at the wedding, and finally it will be 30 thousand. The wedding banquet and the gift money are almost equal.
A netizen said: It was cheap to do it in the countryside a few years ago, as long as it was more than 100,780,000. Can you tell me that the price in the city was so high in the past few years? Let me tell you, a few years ago, the house price in the city was less than half or only one third of what it is now. Is it interesting to say this past price? The key is how much the present value needs.
In addition, I will give you a genealogy: Liaoyuan, China has a vast territory, and the expenditure on marriage and love in rural areas varies from place to place, but even though China has a large territory, the expenditure on marriage and love in rural areas in China can be roughly divided into the following three levels.
1. Due to the serious son preference in these areas, the cost of marriage is the lowest. It's really a loss to marry a daughter from Guizhou, Guangxi, Guangdong and Hainan. Most of the bride price is only about 8800 yuan. Without wedding gifts, many girls will not ask their husbands to build new buildings when they get married. Bricks made ten years ago can also be married. Women in these places are the cheapest places to get married in China, even cheaper than vietnamese brides. Men looking for wives in these areas are almost all purely profitable. So those poor, ugly, short and poor leftover men, do they focus on finding girls from these four regions to marry? I believe most people can afford it.
2. Coastal areas such as Jiangsu, Zhejiang, Shanghai, Fujian, etc. Like to talk about ostentation and extravagance, because they are economically developed. General bride price188,000 or so. In addition, most areas also need to give a bride price when greeting their families (this money is not for the woman's family, just to let them see that their family is not poor or ugly, but if there is no proof, you can't marry this girl, and the woman's parents will try their best to prevent you from getting on the bus with the bride, and the marriage will not be concluded. In fact, to put it bluntly, the woman's parents just want the man to prove that after marrying her, the woman is not without food and living security. Many men borrowed this money to save the scene and paid it back immediately after marriage. )
3. In addition to the above areas, in other areas of our country, almost all the bride price is between 66,000 yuan and 88,000 yuan. In addition, engagement is not marriage. Relatives and neighbors should be told the same surname to witness their happy events, so they should be invited to eat and drink. But at this time, because it is not a big wedding, the couple will not leave according to the ceremony. That is to say, there are about 20 tables of rice on both sides of the countryside, and each table costs about 500 yuan to cook, and 10,000 yuan is finished. (If after the engagement, the man thinks that the woman can't do it, and she wants to break off the marriage, the woman's family will not refund the food and drink money. However, if the woman thinks that the man has a bad temper and wants to break off the marriage, she must bear the 10,000 yuan for food and drink and return it to the man after the discount. )
Whether in urban or rural areas, the cost of a wedding banquet is similar to that of a gift, and a few people have a slight surplus, so we will not calculate this cost, let alone discuss it. What I have listed here is a comparison between a country wife and a city wife, which is cheaper for a man who wants to get married but has no children. I'm not saying it's cheaper to marry a country wife than a city wife. It is better to have something than nothing, and nothing is better than nothing. Compared with rural areas, the cost of marriage is higher than that of cities. That is the reality. Therefore, I would like to ask all netizens to understand and have a general understanding after reading my genealogy.
Therefore, village girls (all girls with rural hukou are actually village girls, and village girls not only refer to those girls who can't go out to farm at home, but also those who can't stay in the city and be transferred to the talent field after going to college, which is the real village girl). Factory girls are not cheap, and the requirements are not lower than those of urban leftover women.
Finally, it is concluded that some men in cities only need 30,000 yuan to marry an ordinary wife, while men in third-and fourth-tier cities without cities 1.8 million yuan, men in inland provincial capitals 400,000 yuan, and men in Guangzhou and Shenzhen in the north of first-tier cities 950,000 yuan.
Some rural men need at least 50,000 yuan to marry an ordinary wife, and some rural men need at least 400,000 yuan (in addition, rural men have to borrow about 65,438+10,000 yuan for wedding gifts, although this money does not belong to the wedding expenses, but this extra courtesy is intangible and requires more efforts than urban men. And most rural men have borrowed this money to save the scene, but it is also difficult to borrow it.
Some people have made money before, and if they don't, they will do new ones. No woman wants to marry bricks made in the 1980s and 1990s, so the bricks made in recent years prove that his family used to live a relatively rich life. A man without a building wants to find a wife now, so he has to do it. If he doesn't build a new building, he won't find a wife. However, if your family is a mountainous, rural, ugly and eccentric man, even if there is one, it is difficult to find a few girls who are willing to marry in the past. Therefore, people in mountainous areas or weird areas usually plant trees on their own mountains, add some hard-earned money they have earned in recent years, move their families to county towns or central towns, buy a set of goods, or build a new building in the township foundation and marry an ordinary one. At present, a three-story building is built on the homestead of one's home in rural areas, each floor is square, and it costs about 350,000 yuan to simply install doors, windows, floors and brick walls for painting.
Up to now, except for Guangdong, Guangxi, Guizhou and Hainan, I have never heard of not wanting wedding gifts. Most of these areas are between 654.38+10,000, and the lucky number in many areas is about 80,000. Because money is not for the woman's family, many married women don't have this idea, thinking that at that time, their husbands only gave bride price, not bride price. In fact, this money is used as a pawn, that is, the man proves that the woman will not starve to death when she marries her family, indicating that her family is rich. In fact, most men's families in rural areas borrowed this money to save the scene, that is, they returned it directly to others after the wedding, so many women included did not know that the man wanted this money.
Now it is an information society, an open era of rapid development, and an era of material worship that pursues interests and relies on urban survival. Therefore, most women only marry urban men (urban men not only refer to urban hukou, but also rural men who pay for themselves or whose parents are in the city are also the targets pursued by many women). The standard for finding a husband to marry a city man is not just the idea of a city woman. In fact, the goal of rural girls is to marry only men who can stand in the city (countless rural women who graduated from universities can't stand in the learning city in the end, and many accounts have moved back or temporarily settled in the talent field of the learning city. In fact, they are all village girls, but most of them don't want to marry a man with a rural hukou, and the last thing they want is to marry a man who can stand in the city.
And willing to marry a rural man, only the following women:
1. Graduated from primary school (no one who graduated from high school wants to marry a rural man, let alone a woman who graduated from college).
2. The appearance is average (the appearance here generally includes the appearance lower than or equal to that of Xifeng. But ordinary girls think they are beautiful, and those girls who look like passers-by are quite confident that they can find a man who can stand firm in the city.
Under the age of 3.23 (marriage is generally early in rural areas. If a rural girl over the age of 23 is unmarried, regardless of her education, appearance and ability, she is definitely unwilling to marry a rural man. All she wants is an marriageable man with a stable car income in the city.
4. Mentally retarded women with brain problems who can't go out to work (those women who can go out to work and earn 23+ are still single, and the requirements are not low. The rural women mentioned here only mean that the registered permanent residence is rural. No matter what their educational background, young women nowadays rarely stay at home to repair the soil pragmatically, and most of them come out to work to earn money. And those rural women with mental retardation who can't communicate with the outside world normally will choose to marry rural men. )
The rural man mentioned above is the kind of man who lives in the countryside at first glance and is unlikely to settle in the city all his life They are talking about men who are ordinary workers and work on assembly lines, earning two or three thousand yuan a month. If nothing happens, they will never be able to live in the city.
As for the examples we have seen, many rural women marry rural men, almost all of whom are potential stock men. Most of them are successful rural men, running their own small businesses, or running enterprises, or becoming small bosses. Some of these men have succeeded in getting a foothold in the city because of their different potentials, and some have vowed to get a foothold in the city, so don't tell me that so-and-so women ask rural men for a low marriage, otherwise you will look really retarded.
In addition, I feel that many netizens always say that they are rural. In fact, they still don't understand many things in the countryside. Some netizens are also arbitrary and always like to draw conclusions, but they are not focused, giving people a bad feeling of dishonesty and unpracticism. I just like to tell the truth. Facing the current reality of people's livelihood, it may be too straightforward, almost the core, so some netizens may think that I am talking nonsense. In fact, if you don't believe me, you can ask your rural relatives casually to find out whether what I said is true or not.
Tell you a reality, if the women in the city are not particularly outstanding and beautiful, generally not many men propose to her. Most men and women in the city get married in a cooperative way. The man pays, and the woman produces household appliances. Of course, there are also particularly beautiful men who are willing to travel. This is not the scope of marriage for ordinary young men and women we are discussing.
In other words, if an ordinary girl has nothing in the city and can't afford money and appliances, it is not easy to find a man who can pay in the city, including those working girls who marry city people. In the end, if you marry a city dweller or a city dweller, you need to bear the electrical expenses yourself. As a result, saying that a woman wants to marry a city dweller is a kind of division of labor and cooperation, and both men and women are almost suitable combinations.
In rural areas, many women don't have to pay a penny for their families, as long as they get married, but the husband-in-law who marries them has to pay nearly 500 thousand yuan for it (if it is not for marriage, there is no condition to do it, but because they don't do it, they can't find a wife, so they get married? )
Ordinary people in the city marry women, so their status after marriage is very high, almost equal to that of men. The rural people married women, but only made little contribution and pay. (PS: I'll tell you another fact. Married in the countryside, the wedding expenses of the woman's family are also paid by the man's family! Naturally, this kind of marriage can't be equal. Those rich girls in rural areas also pay for marriage, and the equality between men and women after marriage is almost mutually beneficial. Because most rural women in China are married to their husbands, their status is low, which is also the reason why most rural men in China are male chauvinism.