1, the bridesmaid, as the name implies, is the woman who accompanies the bride, and it is the bridesmaid who makes the bride look better.
As a supporting bridesmaid, she is the bride's right hand in the process of marriage. Many needs of bridesmaids should be met, and all aspects of bridesmaids should be taken care of. For you who want to be a good friend and maid of honor, you must complete the trust of your friends. Before you become her maid of honor, you should have a good understanding of what you have to do. Take a look here: organize a party for the bride. Help the bride order dresses, choose shoes and determine cakes.
Ensure that bridesmaid dresses are delivered on time. Help the bride record the names of all the givers.
Plan a party and end your teenage life with other bridesmaids. Coordinate the work of other bridesmaids.
Take care of the groom's ring and put his thumb on it. Help the bride to wear a dress. There are often many buttons on the back of the dress and many layers of lining. Tidy up the veil for the bride and take it off when dancing.
Straighten the bride's wedding dress and drag the skirt if necessary. Fasten the veil and skirt.
When the bride is exercising, the best man should pay attention to the integrity of the back image. Help the bride take off her dress and put on a cocktail dress.
Holding flowers for the bride at the wedding. The best man should not only hold his own bouquet, but also take care of the flowers in the bride's hand. Take care of the wedding satin and bring ribbons to the groom until the bride needs them.
Stand next to the groom. Toast the bride and groom.
Dancing with the best man is probably the most beautiful job (of course, it depends on what the best man looks like). Get to know other groomsmen, and maybe you will meet the best groomsman at the beginning of the party! Take care of the bride from beginning to end at the wedding.
Provide moral and spiritual support (all support if necessary) 3. Do it according to the actual wedding arrangements. Know the wedding process in advance and the MC will tell you. It is also best to communicate with the couple. Don't be superstitious about what is good and what is bad. The important thing is to protect yourself and avoid being teased.
2. What do rural bridesmaids need to do?
1, stay close to the couple and accompany them at any time. Especially when couples are on the stage, the best man and bridesmaid must wait at the edge of the stage.
2. Always pay attention to the image of new people. For example, help couples simply tidy up the hem of the suit, the skirt of the dress and the veil, and call a makeup artist to support them when necessary.
3. Pay close attention to the needs of newcomers. The most important thing for the best man and bridesmaid is to have a "wink": it is the best man's job to open the door for the couple, take what they have and help them maintain good manners; When the newcomer is thirsty, he will pass the water; When you see a couple crying, hand in a tissue in time. Many couples forget to rest and are hungry because they are busy or excited, so the best man and bridesmaid must remember to remind them.
4. Be familiar with the personal belongings and personnel arrangements of the newcomers, so as to better help them coordinate and share. In particular, bridesmaids should be familiar with the shoes, underwear and accessories needed for the bride's dress, and take care of the replacement.
5. Qualified bridesmaids and groomsmen should also try their best to ease and appease the new couple's nervousness.
3. What does the best man need to do at the wedding banquet in the countryside?
The best man is the partner and representative of the groom. Except for the wedding ceremony and the bridal chamber, the tasks of the best man and the bridesmaid are slightly different. Most of the time, they need to complete the following three tasks.
Task 1:
1, never leave the couple, always accompany the couple, especially when the couple is on the stage, the best man and bridesmaid must wait at the edge of the stage.
2. Always pay attention to the image of new people. For example, help newcomers to simply arrange suits, dresses, skirts and veils, and ask makeup artists to make up their makeup in time if necessary.
3. Pay close attention to the needs of newcomers. The most important thing for the best man and bridesmaid is to have a "wink": it is the best man's job to open the door for the couple, take what they have and help them maintain good manners; When the newcomer is thirsty, he will pass the water; When you see the newlyweds crying, hand in the tissue in time. Many couples forget to rest and are hungry because they are busy or excited, so the best man and bridesmaid must remember to remind them.
4. Be familiar with the personal belongings and personnel arrangements of the newcomers, so as to better help them coordinate and share. In particular, bridesmaids should be familiar with the shoes, underwear and accessories needed for the bride's dress, and the changed items should be carefully kept.
5. Qualified groomsmen and bridesmaids should also try their best to ease and appease the couple's nervous mood.
Mission 2: Newcomer Representative
1, welcome: bridesmaids should try to make the groom complete, don't let the groom take the bride away easily, and try to let the bride enjoy the joy and glory when she gets married. The best man should "fight" for the groom with the bridesmaids and other sister groups to help the groom level the field and marry beautiful women.
2. When welcoming guests: The maid of honor's task is to welcome new people and pay attention to their appearance, while the best man and the best man should do most of the reception work.
3. In the banquet: When someone has a problem and the bride is slightly embarrassed, the bridesmaid should step forward; It is the responsibility of the best man to help the groom file the wine, which cannot be shirked.
4. During the ceremony: according to the requirements of the host, see off the witnesses and parents who gave speeches on stage.
Task 3: Set off a new style.
The main characters on the wedding day are the bride and groom. The best man and bridesmaid should not overshadow the bride and groom on the wedding day, always keep a distance from the bride and groom, and actively avoid the main picture such as the camera.
4. What preparations should bridesmaids make when they get married?
Best man's duty: 1. Assist newcomers to deal with temporary or unexpected situations; 2. Give the bride a flower gate; 3. Contact the staff when picking up the bride and the float parade, so that they can know the situation and location of the new couple for arrangement; 4. Serve the tray and stop drinking when toasting.
Candidates: unmarried young men, not too tall, preferably good friends and Dionysus. Reason: He'd better drink a lot and work hard, because it's hard for the best man to hold the bottle at the wedding.
Bridesmaids and groomsmen can be said to be important figures in a wedding working group. Usually, the couple will invite a female companion as a bridesmaid, and some people will invite 6~ 12 girlfriends or sisters, one of whom is a bridesmaid, and some people call it a "companion" or a "bridesmaid".
When there is only one bridesmaid, some grooms will invite 2-6 friends to follow the motorcade to marry the bride, so as to make the bride's family beautiful. Everyone is called "the best man", except one main best man.
Usually, the number of groomsmen should be matched with that of bridesmaids. As the name implies, the best man and bridesmaid are the companions and representatives of the new couple.
Except for the wedding ceremony and the bridal chamber, the tasks of the best man and the bridesmaid are slightly different. Most of the time, they need to complete the following two tasks: task 1: personal butler 1, personally accompany the couple, and accompany them at any time. Especially when couples are on the stage, the best man and bridesmaid must wait at the edge of the stage.
2. Always pay attention to the image of new people. For example, help couples simply tidy up the hem of the suit, the skirt of the dress and the veil, and call a makeup artist to support them when necessary.
3. Pay close attention to the needs of newcomers. The most important thing for the best man and bridesmaid is to have a "wink": it is the best man's job to open the door for the couple, take what they have and help them maintain good manners; When the newcomer is thirsty, he will pass the water; When you see a couple crying, hand in a tissue in time.
Many couples forget to rest and are hungry because they are busy or excited, so the best man and bridesmaid must remember to remind them. 4. Be familiar with the personal belongings and personnel arrangements of the newcomers, so as to better help them coordinate and share.
In particular, bridesmaids should be familiar with the shoes, underwear and accessories needed for the bride's dress, and take care of the replacement. 5. Qualified bridesmaids and groomsmen should also try their best to ease and appease the new couple's nervousness.
Task 2: Newcomer Representative 1. When marrying the bride: the bridesmaid should try her best to freshen up the groom and don't let him take the bride away easily. Even the bride's handkerchief should read the bride's mind and try to let her enjoy the joy and glory of marriage.
The best man should "fight" for the groom together with the bridesmaids and other sister groups and help the groom fight for beautiful women. 2. When welcoming guests: The maid of honor's task is to welcome new people and pay attention to their appearance, while the best man and the best man should do most of the reception work.
3. During the dinner: When someone has a problem and the bride is slightly embarrassed, the bridesmaids should step forward and do their best. Now is not the time to be shy around the bride. It is the best man's responsibility to help the groom stop drinking, and he can't shirk it.
4. By candlelight: light a candle gun for the couple and follow them. 5. During the ceremony: when seeing off the witness and respecting the parents and elders, see off both parents. 6, make trouble in the bridal chamber: the best man will lead the guests to make trouble from the beginning.
Don't get me wrong, the bridal chamber is interesting, and the newcomers will have more face. If not, the best man will take the lead, grasp the scale after the start, and finally see the couple off as appropriate.
Bridesmaids can make fun of themselves, just don't forget to observe their words and deeds, stand up for the bride when necessary or try to divert everyone's attention. Memorandum for bridesmaids and groomsmen 1. Sometimes bridesmaids take responsibility for keeping red envelopes. Please prepare an exquisite but bulky handbag in advance, and remember to give it to the financial supervisor or parents designated by the couple before the ceremony, and ask them to keep it properly.
2. Remind the couple not to forget the ring, or keep the ring for the couple, and make sure to give it to the designated person on the stage before the ceremony. 3, holding a ring pillow, the bridesmaid undertakes this work, must remember to pay attention to their position, so as not to become a "third party" in the photo, and then help the bride pick up the flowers and take off her gloves.
If flower girl is holding a ring pillow, please ask the bridesmaid to take good care of him or her. 4. The groomsman and bridesmaid convey the new couple's voice on the wedding day.
Don't hesitate to find relevant staff in time to help newcomers convey their wishes and let professionals provide services for newcomers. Never make a decision without authorization.
Of course, if you plan to hire a professional wedding planner, it doesn't matter whether the best man and bridesmaid have experience. In addition to arranging all the trivial matters in the wedding, wedding planning will also guide and remind the best man and bridesmaid about their work, position and etiquette in the ceremony, and even arrange for the new secretary to perform part of the bridesmaid's work.
Bridesmaids and groomsmen wear relatively formal suits or dresses. If many groomsmen adopt formal clothes (such as Chinese tops), it will have a special dramatic effect. The bridesmaid had better wear a little dress, which is both beautiful and sets off the bride. Of course, they must move easily and don't let clothes distract them. After all, their main job is to look after the bride.
In addition, it should be noted that the dress of bridesmaids and groomsmen should be consistent with the main color of the wedding. In fact, bridesmaids don't have to be women, and groomsmen don't have to be men.
The so-called "bridesmaid" actually refers to the person who accompanies the bride, while the "best man" is the person who accompanies the groom. If the bride's best friend is a man, don't let the word "Niang" as a bridesmaid list him as an unqualified candidate.
Similarly, the groom sometimes invites his female friends or sisters to accompany him at the wedding. In fact, many couples have members of the opposite sex in their partner teams.
In this case, the best man of the bridesmaid still has to undertake most of the work of the bridesmaid, but is usually called "attendant" or "maid of honor" politely; On the other hand, women on the groom's side, although still called "the groom's companion" most of the time, should be "the best man" in terms of tasks.
5. Being a bridesmaid for the first time, what should a bridesmaid do?
1, bridesmaids' clothes are more formal. Generally speaking, they can wear pink, so they won't compete with the bride's big red, and they are very festive.
2. The bridesmaid's main function is to accompany the bride, collect money at home, see her off, help the bride look after the clothes and shoes to be changed, and prepare things to be repaired. In short, because the bride's hand is not easy to hold and needs to be used, the bridesmaid should take it. The money for the celebration is collected at the gate of the hotel. The money for the red envelope is held by the bridesmaid and finally given to the bride. In the celebration, always help to dress up. Wait, but drinking has nothing to do with you.
3. The bride should give the bridesmaid a red envelope, and of course, a good friend's wedding should also be given a gift. Both sides should give it. They are all good friends anyway. Besides, the bridesmaid is unmarried, and the gift money can still be earned back.
4, the door must be blocked, not only you, but also the atmosphere, enough, no one will say. Of course, the trouble of the bridal chamber is saved, so it is better to leave.
In short, the bridesmaid is very tired and the bride is even more tired.
6. What preparations should I make to be a bridesmaid for the first time?
You have to go to the bride's house early in the morning to accompany her to make up and do her hair. Generally speaking, you go out with makeup on yourself. In some cases, the makeup artist will make up both of you. You should communicate with the bride yourself then. If you dress, don't wear dark clothes or white clothes. The color of clothes should be soft. In my experience, light pink is not bad, and the makeup should not be too strong. Don't wear fancy clothes or anything. Before noon, the groom will pick up the bride. You have to block the door and pretend not to let the groom in (hehe, give him a red envelope if you want to enter). Of course, the groom will come in eventually, and then the photographer will take some pictures. There's nothing you can do. Then the bride's parents will give the couple sweet soup such as longan and red dates, and you can eat it with them, and then the groom will take the bride away. Usually at this time, the groom takes the bride to the car, and you should follow them and bring the bride's flowers and the bag she wants to take away (the things in the bag are some things that you need to pack when you go to the bride's house in the morning, so you should think about what to bring in advance, and don't forget when you are busy, which is not good). Then you take a couple's car and go to the new house together. Usually, the man's relatives and friends are already waiting in the new house. When the bride is here, she should offer tea to her husband's relatives, and you should collect red envelopes after her. If you are specially asked to bring tea and water to the bride as a sign of respect, you should also do it, but I heard that this job was done by the best man, at least when I did it. When the tea is ready and your red envelopes are collected, you can go out for location shooting with the couple. When shooting on location, you should be responsible for grooming the bride and so on. Then the most critical time has come, and that is evening. You should be responsible for arranging seats for the guests, because it is impossible for the guests to look at the famous brands on the table one by one, so before that, you should be familiar with the seating schedule. As long as the person who came signed up and gave a red envelope, you should be familiar with taking the table on the road, not like a headless fly. In addition, you should also be responsible for taking the ring, and be careful not to drop it, so that the bride will definitely try her best to find you as a master of ceremonies. You should put the ring on the pillow, and the pillow wedding company will provide it. Then when you start eating, you should grasp the time and tell the bride when to change the first set and the second set. In short, you should grasp the schedule of the whole party. You can remind makeup artists in time what the emcee should do, and don't let them patronize themselves, forget their work and start toasting. This is the time when all bridesmaids want big heads. You can help the bride settle down, for example, ask the guests not to make the bride too violent, but don't bravely rush in front to help the bride drink. This job is for the best man. Don't rob. Unless you are a good drinker, it is shameful for bridesmaids to be unconscious at the wedding reception. Also, you should watch the bride go to WC or something, and help her clean up after dinner. Don't tuck the bride's skirt in her pants. So the groom will desperately look for you (ha ha, just kidding). That's about it. There is no chance to interrupt when the bridal chamber is noisy, but be careful. Some people who make trouble in the bridal chamber may also make trouble with you and the best man.
7. What should I do when I am a bridesmaid for the first time?
Live with the bride the day before marriage and accompany her to make up the next morning; At the wedding scene, follow the bride step by step, carry a small bag that matches the bridesmaid's dress, and prepare: paper towel, lip balm, lipstick, small clip, small mirror \ small comb, etc. You can also put exchanged rings, engagement objects, bride's mobile phone, red envelopes and other items. These are all things the bride needs, especially the bride's bouquet. Don't forget to take them. When the wedding begins to enter the venue, the bride's maid of honor stands on the bride's side. Don't get too close, so as not to steal the bride's shot. Pay attention to the words of the wedding host and cooperate with the bride to complete every wedding process. During the wedding, the bride needs to free her hands to exchange rings and take them away. The bridesmaid must take the flowers in time, and don't let the bride be at a loss, and then put them in the bride's hand when she has finished speaking. When the couple toast together, the bridesmaid can follow the bride and hold a tray with wine, sugar, red envelopes and cigarettes. Be smart, and the bride and groom must hold the tray in time when they need the above things. Bridesmaids generally don't have to stop drinking, because there is a best man, so don't worry. When you are the best man, you can eat more before the wedding, so you won't be hungry. This is what you need to do at the wedding. The bridesmaid's dress is more important, not more than the bride, and not too ugly. You'd better communicate with the bride before. It is necessary for the bride to pay or rent a matching wedding dress. The bridesmaid's makeup doesn't need to be too bright, or she will steal the bride's thunder. Wear only light-colored clothes. Don't wear high heels, or you will be very tired ~
8. How to be a bridesmaid
I just became a bridesmaid two days ago. I can answer this question.
Being a bridesmaid is not easy. First of all, it depends on what kind of friends the bride and groom are. If they are honest and practical, their friends and parents' friends should be like this, so it won't be too difficult for bridesmaids. However, if the bride and groom are noisy, bridesmaids should be careful. Don't wear too revealing clothes, it's not worth being robbed. By the way, bring a hangover cure. Of course, it is best not to drink it on the wedding day, but you must have a spare medicine. Don't be rude
Secondly, a few days before the wedding, the newlyweds will meet the master of ceremonies, and the bridesmaids and groomsmen will also be present. The MC will tell you what to do then.
Judging from the wedding day, I probably did the following things: (customs vary from place to place)
1, the day before the wedding, accompany the bride to the bridal shop to collect the rented wedding dress.
2. Accompany the bride to the bridal shop to make up and wear a wedding dress early on the wedding day.
3. When the groom gets married, he should block the door and make things difficult for the groom group, and ask for a red envelope (small red envelope).
4. When you go out, give the red box for the bride's clothes and the box for the toast to your family.
5. At the wedding scene, when offering tea, wine and gifts to parents, offer tea, wine and gifts to the couple on the stage, and at the same time help pass the microphone and hold flowers.
6. Accompany the bride to change her toasting clothes and make up.
7. Accompany the couple to propose a toast to the guests, mainly by adding wine.
That's about it. You'd better wear a pink skirt that day. Don't wear cold clothes such as green and blue. Just make up lightly, not too much.
For example, ask the groom: Who are you? What are you doing here? Do you love her? How much do you love her? When singing a song, the best man must sing in chorus and then have a brain teaser. I asked at that time: What lights have the most? As a result, no one answered, and finally the best man group jumped in from the window to be successful.
We don't have the custom of getting up and holding the ring pillow to pay here. I wish the color of shoes matched with clothes. We can't wear pink skirts and a pair of black shoes, can we? o(∩_∩)o .
It is best to wear pink or white shoes. High heels and low heels depend on the height gap between you and the bride. I wore low-heeled sandals when I was a bridesmaid, but I was still much taller than the bride. I'm depressed ~