1. Is the gift money for the woman or for the parents?
1. For parents
Strictly speaking, if the man wants to marry the woman home, he should give her parents some thanks. Therefore, the gift money is generally given to the woman's parents, thanking them for raising the woman, which can also be regarded as pension money for the woman's parents.
For the lady
Nowadays, many young people are only children, so the woman needs to support her parents after she gets married. Then, the gift money given by the man when he gets married, most parents will give it to the woman as private money after marriage.
Give it to a new friend
Some women's parents will return the bride price directly to the husband and wife and become the same property. Sometimes the woman's parents will give the couple more dowry as a family start-up fund. Generally speaking, the gift money is freely distributed by the woman's parents.
Second, why can't I make up the wedding gift after marriage?
1. Traditional customs
If you mend your wedding gift after the wedding, it's called "mending your marriage", which means getting married again. This hint is very unlucky. Moreover, the homonym of "late gift" and "eat you" is unlucky, so the wedding gift must not be made up late, and it is best to send it on the wedding day.
2. Interpersonal relationships
After the wedding, both the bride and groom are embarrassed to accept gifts. Because weddings are held to make friends feel happy together, not to receive gifts. After the wedding, giving gifts and red envelopes is not conducive to human relations. If you don't have time to attend the wedding, it is recommended to make up the gift afterwards, not the bride price.
Summary:
The above content is about the introduction of wedding gift money, I hope it can help you. Whether it is a bride price or a gift red envelope, you must choose a lucky number. Red envelopes with numbers 6, 8 and 9 are more suitable.