For those who have suffered losses, they are all our closest relatives and may be more willing, but the most unacceptable thing is that our responsibilities cannot be taken for granted.
It is true that we attach importance to family ties, but we should also be measured, because not everyone knows how to show kindness to others. In some people's eyes, it is just a matter of course, and it is useless to pay.
Life needs our kindness, but it also needs our kindness with a bottom line. Indulgence will only breed evil in human nature. May each of us be gentle with others, with others and with others.
China people have always been sophisticated in their life and work, but one problem has not been solved perfectly so far, and that is how to get along with their mother-in-law. As we all know, the relationship between women is basically two extremes, either good or chaotic. As two women under the same roof, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are more prone to friction, so contradictions are inevitable.
Although the feelings are more complicated, in the final analysis, they are still mutual affection. If you want to get along, you need two people to maintain it together. From the mother-in-law's point of view, I hope to have a daughter-in-law who cares about herself and works hard for this family, rather than a person who just wants to protect her family and push her mother-in-law as an enemy.
From the daughter-in-law's point of view, I don't want my mother-in-law to interfere in the relationship between two people, nor do I want her mother-in-law to participate too much in their lives. In addition, the most important thing is to have children. Although my mother-in-law has no mother-in-law, I hope her mother-in-law can help her more after the baby is born, whether it is confinement or child. Many mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are incompatible because they hate confinement.
Last but not least, the person who connects these two women. For the daughter-in-law, I hope my husband can protect himself, and I also hope that my husband will not blindly help his parents. Because it will make women feel alienated and feel like an outsider. As a mother-in-law, I naturally don't want my son who has been raising for decades to turn his elbow outwards.