Here in Cangnan, the man will give the woman a gift after the engagement. The approximate price is 10.8- 16.8w, depending on the family situation. Generally, women don't accept gifts, or use them to buy home appliances or something. Families with good conditions will generally give back dowry, such as a car of more than 100 thousand. Other small items, bracelets and sweets. I won't describe it in detail. Something like that

Guests don't give red envelopes when they are engaged, but they give red envelopes to their hosts when they get married, which is mainly 820, 1020, which is lower than that of Lucheng Ruian, but it is quite high in other places, and the pressure on the working class is also quite high.

The above is purely my understanding of the market, which may be slightly different. I hope to help the landlord.